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Should I forgive him?

Ok so my boyfriend and I were really tight, it was like we were brother and sister. Then out of the blue he goes and sleeps with my cousin! Like in November!!! And I just figured it out like 2 months ago… People keep telling me to forgive him, but I am still in like shock from what he did to me, and everytime he trys to talk to me, I cant even look him in the face.

I dont know, should I just forgive him, and probably end up dating him again?

Because like I said people are getting mad at me for not forgiving him. . . And I’m at my breaking point…

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Answer #1

do what ufeel in your heart if you cant even look at him then I don’t think he is right for u

Answer #2

most guys when they cheat once they will do it again and I highly doubt it was out of the blue they probably liked each other and didnt want you to know or find out. But I say go with your instincts cause my boyfriend cheated on me a few months after we got together and it happened in November and I didnt find out until Feb. and he also cheated on me in January and I didnt find out until June. we broke up for a while and in August 2008 we got back together and he has not done anything with anyone except for me. But I forgave him and told him if he ever hurt me again I would leave and wouldnt look back cause I do not deserve it I deserve to be treated good and so do you. so go with you instincts and I hope you make a good decision.

Answer #3

im sorry but after he slept with your cousin you should have broke it off the moment you found out. I mean do you really like the thought of him sticking his stuff in your cousin and then in you? sorry to be so graphic but think about it. im sorry I would never forgive him if I was you. cheating is a a deal breaker even more when its with a family member. sorry if I offended you or anyone else.

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