She's awesome, but why does she treat me like this?

My best mate just recently is treating me kinda different. She slgs me off SO much, I don’t even think it’s intentional. shes like “Yeah, but I’M right all the time. You never are. Ha ha ha.” And then when I’m like silent and pssed off, she’ll go “Aww.” you shouldn’t fxcking slxg me off, then feel sorry for me? She calls me stupid when I make mistakes, and picks on the little things I do wrong. I kinda failed maths in yr 7, moved down a set, I’m still in second set which is good, but shes like “Had a good lesson in your little low group?” treats me like a fxcking baby.

And today, she just sat and took the piss out of me ALL lunch time. Then walking to a different lesson, she went, “Oh right, theres the mean one.” I didn’t reply and she went. “Aww you look pissed off.”

She makes me wrong ALL the time. I say my opinion, she makes me feel like a foot tall, she never lets anything go. I’ll say my opinion but HERS will be SO much better :|

DON’T TELL ME TO “LEAVE HER AND GO TO MY OTHER FRIENDS”

Its so annoying how much she upsets me. Telling me I’m stupid all the time. Especially as I already have really low self esteem and no confidence.

What should I do? I really need help. Thanks for reading :] xx

Answer #1

Hmm… Well I would tell her to back off and stop treating me like a baby and if she dosent do it back to her she will notice beleave me

Answer #2

Mabye she likes you, or mabye she’s having problems at home thats making for act weird. But the thing you have to do is tell her how how she’s treaking you and that you don’t like it, and ask for your old friend back. If that doesn’t work, when she’s making fun of you laugh for make fun of yourself with her, dont try to beat her… join her.

Answer #3

Tell her how your Feeling!! If she doesnt change hang with your friends more..then when she’s ready and your ready..maybe you can get back together!!<3<3

Answer #4

Well she’s a girl you can’t do anything about it… Women are women and they will never change … Just find a way to live with who she is!

Answer #5

well you could stop starting hang out more with your other friends & then she will start to notice how much she needs you & shouldnt be slagging you off

gud luck doll

x

Answer #6

I could be wrong, but it sounds like she’s just discovered a way to feel better about herself. She’s using you to somehow feel superior. It’s doing a lot for her ego, maybe. How to combat it? You need to somehow not give her the reaction she’s getting. Don’t let any of this bother you. Change the subject, pat her on the head. Let it bounce off you like water off a duck’s back.

Answer #7

Part of becoming an adult is dealing with your problems head on. Each time you get upset over something she says you’re not only giving her control over you, but you’re showing everyone around that you’ve got no faith in yourself. One trick to dealing with this is to throw the same types of comments back at her…but ALWAYS smile while doing it. You need to start believing in yourself.

Answer #8

then she’s not awesome. that’s just annoying.

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