Why do I want to be anorexic due to sexual abuse?

SEE PART OF THE REASON I WANT TO BE ANOREXIC OR BUMIC IS BECAUSE WHEN I WAS 5 TILL I WAS ABOUT 11 I WAS SEXUAL ABUSED BY MY GRAMAS EX HUSBAND AND IT WOULD STILL BE APPENING BECAUSE I ONLY TOLD CAUSE HE DIED IM ABLE TO TALK ABOUT IT NOW SO ASK ME QUESTION IDC ALSO EVERYONE HATES ME I HAVE NO FIRENDS AND SO I HAVE TO DO SOMETHING.

Answer #1

No you couldn’t have stopped it. We trust the guardians in our lives and what they say, goes. What could a little girl do? Sexual predators prey on fear and silence is their best weapon.

So don’t feel guilty and stop blaming yourself. HE’S the one who did it, it’s HIS fault for taking your trust and innocence.

I was raped from age 4 to 19. Could I have stopped it? Yea, but I was so frightened. He could hurt me, or my mom or my sister or even take everything away from me. Then one day I just packed up my things and ran away. I haven’t looked back since.

Try these books: The Right to Innocence, The Courage to Heal

If you need to talk, please funmail me. Danielle

Answer #2

…So your gonna go anorexic cuz your Grama’s Ex Husband was a Skum bag who Touched You?

Im Sorry,But thats stupid.

You should get a counceler and talk to someone about what he did.

starving yourself over it is stupid,you didnt do anything wrong,and you dont deserve it.

Answer #3

Know that none of it is your fault. But now you need to take action against what has happened to you. Don’t let the effects of sexual abuse define your life. Anorexia will not help you. You may feel guilty and want to punish your body, this is why you need to seek a counselor.

Even though your abuser has passed away doesn’t make you feelings and the effects go away. Counseling will be very beneficial to you, they can help you understand why you are doing things that are unhealthy, such as anorexia.

Visit RAINN.com it will help you find a counselor near you.

Answer #4

People who are abused try to make themselves unattractive to others in the hope that they won’t get abused again, some go anorexic some go over weight, but its also a way that you think you have control over your body, but itsn ot the answer. You really need to see a rape councellor and your doctor. Going anorexic is not the solution to how you feel. You need to talk this out with someone. The abuse was not your fault and councelling will help you realise this and get you through this awfull time. Please seek help. Not eating is not the solution.

Answer #5

Actually it’s not stupid if you understand the psychological damage cause by sexual assault. Especially childhood sexual abuse.

You should go to RAINN.com and find a counselor near you. They can help you with your issues and help you understand some of those urges. It’s been a huge help to me so far. I used to think I was crazy or stupid. But it turns out that your mind can trick you into do things to help protect you. (Like me for instance… I have horrible insomnia. Survival skill that my mind learned to help protect myself from sexual abuse from my childhood.)

If you need to talk, feel free to funmail me anytime.

Answer #6

YES IT IS MY FLALT I COULD HAVE STOPPED IT I WAS A CHICKEN

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