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My sister is a disgusting human being, this is no exgeration, she revolts me and i am not just saying that i promise. She is very large both tall and heavy and scares me like no one else, she lives with me and my mum even though we both live in fearpf her. My ad no longer lives with us because he abused me and my sister when we were children and unfortunatly my sister was the favoured child by my dad, both my sister and dad admitted it. When he attempted to kill himself about 3 years ago him and my mum seperated and he now lives half way across the country. In september she tried to kill herself because she was being bullied, it failed (she looked it up on the internet how many pills would kill her and took five less) she did this for attention, she then was taken to a clinic where me and my mum would have to drive an hour there and back everyday for a month and a week, in the clinic there was peopled who were schitzo whod been r@ped and people who could talk to the dead apparenly. She now has couniciling. She is very much attention seeking 24\7 and will do anyyhing to be heard and noticed. She is extremely rude and selfish, she makes both me nd my mum cook clean and pick up aftrr her. She has no responsibilities and she gets away with murdr i swear! She shouts at me if im in her way or she willl attack me if i try starting a conversation while she is on her laptop, she even started saying about 3 months ago she could see a halsination of sort of black dog. She sleeps in my mums room and physiclly hurts me all the time, she even put bleachh in my fish tank- they survived. She honestly doesn't care about no one or nothing but herself. I hate saying it but somstimes i wish shed sucseded in tryna kill herself.. She is so nasty she even acused my mum of abusing her?!!?! my mum is incredible and works 9 hours a day six days a week and is so sweeet has NEVER layed a hand on either of us, she is amazing but my sister makes her life hell too.@She bruises me hurts me and lowers my self esteem to almost nothing. And another thing is sge has a big secret over me that could ruin a lot of things if she told. She black mails me and wont stop untill she gets the attention she wants. She also says when my mum shouts at her that oh u dont love me or ohh i had a bad day. I live in fear of her. What do i do.
I had said this earlier but you need to get out of such a hostile environment. If your mother isnt willing to put her in her place to better her younger daughters life then you need to get away. Live with an aunt, uncle, or friend possibly. Personally i think she needs to be put away into juvie, or a clinic again, somewhere where she isnt able to hurt you and people can control her. Letting her step all over you though wont help. If she knows she can get away with something she will continue to do it. I lived in fear of my older sister she was pretty abuse to me but i would stand up to her and she would back down even though she was larger and much stronger. I have to ask what secret does she have that will ruin alot of things?(funmail me it maybe?) I hope things work out stefie you deserve to live in a healthy environment
when i read this it, i thought must be hel to live in this environment you seem too be very strong but if ur sister harrasses u dont do a thing only if she lays a hand on u dont yell back nothin tell ur mum wut she did and ur sis wont have a reason y she did this if this doesnt work try to get some of the things she does on camera (hide it) i wouldnt highly recomend this but if this is the last option then do it. and dont let anyone bring u down u r a great person from wut i have seen here in 3 or 4 days. this had happened to me before wit my brother who wus adopted. i hope this helps ;)
Ummm first off abuse comes in many forms. So just because your mom has not laid a hand on you or your sister does not mean she didn't abuse you in some way. From what you have stated there is forms of child neglect due to the fact your sister abuses you and your mom and your mom has not taken action on protecting you from your sister. From the looks of it she may be going through the emotions of the split between your mother and father so maybe you all would be better off if you sent her there.....duh.
oh stefie, the only thing i can think of is reporting it to your local authorities but make sure that you have some king of evidence, you ar so lucky because you have people like elliee and tons of friends here and at school to talk to, and if you feel stuck you can funmail me or anyone else here or like i've told you before jump a train to glasgow and i'll meet you :)
Its difficult to live in a situation like that. You have people you love attacking you and makeing you feel like nothiing. but you are something and your special. Dont let no one ever lie to you like that. You may cannot help how other people live and how they act but you can help how you deal with things. Keep your head up and worry on how you can be a better person.
stefie you are and awesome person and dont let anybody make you feel different get what she does on tape and if it gets bad you have the tape to give to the authorities and you have enidence its realy bad what your sis is doing and you should do something about it if you need someone to talk to funmail me i dont mind at all <3
Get away Stefie.... No one deserves to be hurt. You need to tell your mom your sister needs help.... and you wont settle for her attitude. if she hits you... hit her back twice as hard. You don't deserve that.
poor you:( just try to stay out of her way and survive till your 18 or whatever and get your on house........ or do as fairy girl said:)......... hope you find a way.
Tell your mom or dad.. Or tell someone really close to you like best friend, or close friend, closest cousin, one of your siblings.. Or talk to the sky at night..
Prayer, Faith, God. You probably won't listen to me (based on a comment you made a while ago about church-going) but this is the best answer I can give.
Your about to pee on yourself when you hear there voice and run to the nearest exit.
This is a serious question, if you don't have a serious answer don't comment.
Yeah bro well thought out answer, not like i fucking live wiith them
eat cereal in your closet
Avoid them [=
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