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Im too scared to tell my mom I want to live with my dad.

me and my mom constantly argue, she always says she wants to strangle me and calls me a braT and if I ever stand up for myself she screams at me, says im talking back, and takes my phone and any device I can use to get away from her like my phone, ipod and computer. every night im at her house I end up crying and im not just taking about once in a while I mean every single night. shes always on the phone with her friends and wenever me my sis and my bro are over there, its fend for yourself. we have to make out own breakfast, lunch and dinner almost every night. whe I am with my dad, I am always happy and sometimes I even cry because I dont want to go back to my mom because she verbally abuses me. I really need help and have been searching for it for about a year now. I really want to live just with my dad but im scared my mom will get mad at me for saying that! PLEASE HELP ME!!! I BEG U!!!

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Answer #1

My best friend had this same exact issue so I know where you are coming from. She pended telling her dad she didnt want to see him for 2 years! then one night she got the guts to call him and simply tell him she couldnt take it anymore and she just wants to stay at her moms and she was sorry but she would feel better … she hasnt seen her dad legitly for a year now and he always texts her saying he loves her and misses her but she is happy about what she did even though she felt like total c.rap when she did it . I hope that helped, you can message me if you want me to help more im sure I can

Answer #2

Talk to your dad! Tell him everything thats going on. Confront your mom about what she’s doing and saying to you. Let her know the mistakes she’s making. Don’t yell unless you have to..

Hope it helped! Good Luck!=]

Answer #3

Me and my dad had that same problem. We always argued and I put up with it for too long. I finally told my mom one day, and then about a week later, I told my dad I didn;t want to live with him anymore. So he told me “Fine go live with your mom then” and I did. I suggest you tell your parents ASAP. The longer you wait, the harder it is.

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