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there is this girl I really liked but the thing is she just got a baby...her baby's daddy left her and she has no feelings for him. my question is should I be in a relationship with her or should I find somebody else?
Going out with her will not be like going out with other girls... She wont be able to drop everything to go out to a party with you, her first priority will be her child (or it should be) and you're going to have to deal with the fact that she has responsibilities... if you can live with that, then there is no reason not to be in a relationship with her...
Yes, you should, but you have to know that the life (-rhythm) of a new mother is not the same as of an independent girl. And that would not be good, if you took all the attention of that girl and she would neglect her baby. So you have to understand her situation.
I think you should go for it - just take things slower then usual so you can both get used to the situation.
I don't think you should let the baby bother you. if you really like her then I think you should go for it.
if you like her it shouldnt matter ,,,
