What to do if I'm getting too involved with someone?

its the excitement isnt it?

work on your marriage , you might regret waliking away from it once the excitment wears thin.

It depends on how involved you really are.

If you really love your husband, then end what you are doing and be honest with your husband, and make sure he really knows that you are feeling guilty about it and want his forgiveness.

If you dont feel guilty or that it is wrong, then dont be with your husband or supporting what he is doing.

Dear vargas_lopez, Well you need to make a choice don’t you! Do you want your marriage to work? Then stop seeing this other person and get counselling. They will help you work out your feelings a ways in which you may be able to save your marriage. If you would rather be with this other person then again seek counselling because you may have to deal with a lot of guilt. The thing is to make a choice and work on that choice. Sue..good luck

It’s a tough decision, but we cannot make it for you. You have to think about who you love, who you want to be with, who you think is a better partner for you, etc. When you make your decision, let them both know what’s going on.