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How can I get my girlfriend to be more open about her feelings?

Well me and my ex-gf got back together :)…. but then i feel like i’m walking on glass, like seriously i am so careful about everything i do or say. Because i do not wanna ruin this, i mean the last time we broke up was the worst time of my life. I asked for a few time and she said she happy, i asked her why you wanted to do this. She didnt really give alot of insight all she said was to give me a 2nd chance. I really want to make this relationship last

She not a big talker on how she feel ect. ect….. so it’s very hard to talk to her about this stuff, which is why i came here because i wanna make sure this last. It’s don’t help how paranoid i am about breaking up again, but this time it’s not the same as the last time we dated. we’re not living together, we’re not talking to each other all day long, we’re not even seening each other every single day. Now we do see each other sometime, like spend a few night at my house ect…….. I don’t know if this way is better then our last or not. She did tell me a few things, like show her more attentions, help with our daughter more, show my feelings more ect…… And believe me i am doing the best i can. Yet i still feel like something is going go wrong. Like i’m trying to get her to show her feelings more ect. like she told me, and she said she would try.

I don’t know am i doing something wrong?… or do it sounds like i’m doing the right thing so far for this relationship? And do anyone got some ways i can show my feelings? I mean i got a picture of her on my facebook, i always cuddle, talk, spend time, hold hands all of that.

SO anyone wanna offer some advice on all of this? :)

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Answer #1

It sounds to me like you’re just paranoid and are really trying this time round. I think you’re on the right track, you’re trying hard to show her you care for her more, helping out with your daughter etc. What was the reason you two broke it off last time? Make sure the two of you don’t repeat the same mistakes as last time whatever it might be. And much as it is hard to talk to her, according to you, communication is very important in a relationships so if a problem were to arise the two of you need to find ways to talk about it.

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Answer #3

ok i feel the same way cuz of alot of stuff that happened with my gf and her best friend i know i am only 14 but ive been through alot and well my advice to you is look at it this way. if i lose her what will happen? will i be a mess? if you answer yes then tell her how you feel then tell her you love her and dont want to lose her that you cant lose her ever that you would be a mess if you lost her again i know it sounds dumb but i does work trust me i lost my gf twice and it was the worst time of my life and i almost lost the will to live.

Answer #4

i know this sounds really odd but start messing around with her and using different languages to ask her how she is (search them up on google translator or something)… Then it will become more of a joke and it will be easier for her to tell you coz it wont be such a stiff subject…. Hope this helped…

Answer #5

When you get a moment to yourselves try telling her everything you’ve just said/tell her it would mean a lot if she told you exactly how she feels too; sitting down and explain your feelings makes it more likely for you both to understand each others thoughts and easier to work out to work towards becoming better for eachother!

It’s great you’re making a real effort but also you have to remember now that you have a child, they have to come first; perhaps the stress of being a parent has made it more difficult for her to talk about her feelings?

As long as you try to help her out out and keep remininding her that you want to make the relationship work this time/your there for her I’m sure it will all work out.

Good luck :)

Answer #6

Since you guys just recently got back together, don’t expect her to open up so quickly. Be patient. If I were you, I’d focus more on having fun with her and making her feel special and comfortable. Reassure her that you love her. Tell her that she doesn’t need to bottle up her feelings, and that you’ll be there for her no matter what. When she’s comfortable and ready to tell you her feelings, she will. Just remember that patience is key. Also, I personally find it easier to open up to people after they open up to me first.

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