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How can I get my girlfriend to open up to me?

ok i have been going out with this girl for like two years. we hve a nice relationship but the only problem we have is that she doesnt open up at all. I mean i would ask her whats wrong but she says nothing or she would hide her personal feelings. i try everything i can to please her in everyway but and i try to make her happy but she doesnt seem to realize that..is there anything i can do tomake her feel that i am the right one for her. i mean i guess she is hurt from the scars of her past relationship. but can i make her feel like i am different for her and the right one for her…help please

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Answer #1

You cant make her see what you see. She has to see it for herself. If she is still scared from her last relationship after 2 yrs of dating you, why are you still with her? If she cant get past it all, then how can you see a future with her? How can you say you have a nice relationship, when you both cant even communicate? When only one person is putting effort into the relationship, you really dont have one. Its takes two, and if she isnt willing to fully open up to you, maybe you need to give her some time apart. Sometimes it takes losing someone to make them realize exactly what they had.

Answer #2

lestat1 I am going through that now i have hard time to open to men from were i been hurt in the past an let me tell you the guy i am talknig to now keeps telling me not hold anything back it kind worries him when i do tell your girlfriend that she needs to start being open with you an not hide her personal feeling that you are doing everything you can make her happy an if something on her mind you want no so mabey you can help her i hope this help if you need any more advice i be gald help

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