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Purity ring

Ok so I thnk im deff. Leaning towards getting a purity ring now. I was watching that 70’s show and it made me come to this decision. Eric and donna went to a marraige counselor and said they weren’t excited about marraige. Then they ttold him that they had already had sex. The couselor said “maybe your not excited because you have nothing new to look forward to. The one thing that should only be done during marraige has already been done before.” it made me think and im now seriously considering getting one. I just have to gain an optimistic attitude. I say that I’d resist if the opportunity was right in front of me, but I really dont think I could last that long, especially through college with all the horny drunk chicks. I don’t know tho, I have to work on that. Does any one have suggestions to get through college with the v card still in tact?

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Answer #1

Wow. You’re thinking about getting a purity ring because of a tv show? That kind of decision should be based on your moral beliefs. Not what some guy said on tv! I have a purity ring and I did because I don’t believe in sex before marriage. Not because someone told me my sex life would be better if I got one. Oh, and keeping the ‘’v card’’ still in tact, yeah, just don’t give your body to every ho that you see. Don’t be a slut.

Answer #2

I have a purity ring myself, and I keep reminding myself that there’s that one special person out there who was made for me and I don’t want to give part of myself away b/c then I can’t give all of me to the one who was made for me.

as for the girlfriend, I think if you are going to get a girlfriend, find one who still has her v card, and who is also waiting for marriage. that’s the only way that she will understand your decision.

Answer #3

I had been thinking about a purity ring for quite some time, I just needed some guidance on why to get it and why waiting is so great. and that 70’s show surprsingly phrased it exactly how I needed it. my motivation is correct, I’ve been scared of sinning for a while now. its just that I can have really weak control overmyself and I dont want to mess it up. I do plan on going to parties in college, thats part of the experience. do you think that getting an understanding girlfriend would help?

Answer #4

I wish I could be a “reborn virgin.” Good luck to you. I know I couldn’t do it.

Answer #5

You have to write down the reasons why you want one and read them every day. You have to share your goals with your friends/family.

These are the basics of goal-setting. You can easily avoid “horny drunk chicks” in college if you avoid the parties.

Answer #6

keeping your virginity is a hard thing to do these days… I’m only 16 and I gave my virginity to my boyfriend when I was 15… I always told myself that I would wait until marriage… and I resisted for a while… but then I wanted to be with him in that way so bad that I gave in to my desires… now don’t get me wrong, I don’t regret it… but a lot of people do… I am still with my boyfriend and we both very much look forward to being married… but in order for you to keep such a sacred thing sacred… you have to remember why you’re doing it… remember that that one part of you is something very special and you need to cherish it and keep it until you are ready to give it away to the one person who deserves it… I wish you the best of luck… always remember what is important to you and do whatever it takes to keep it forever… trust me… great things can be taken away from you in a heartbeat… be true to yourself and to those things or people that matter most to you… good luck…

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