Problems with my marriage

He WILL do it again.. unless you and him make some changes. If you are both serious and dedicated to working on your relationship- then by all means-do it, but do it right and take it seriously, and take it slow. You will not get anywhere arguing back and forth and there needs to be boundaries and rules - like no kicking the other one out, no screaming at each other etc. If you see the argument escalate-try to stop it dead in its tracks. The back and forth is not getting you two anywhere. I hope he wants to work it out as you do but remember - it takes two. I think the best thing in the world right now is that you two are in seperate housing. It will really help the both of you cool down and get things in perspective. Ask yourselves- what are you fighting about? Is it worth it? Each of you need to ask yourselves what you can do to improve the relationship - give and take. The way he is treating you right now is very disrespectful and borderline abusive. If you walk back into that trap dont be suprised if you feel the pain and the anger and the hurt all over again. I would consider counseling. If you cant afford a counselor (it can be very expensive), some cities have programs that offer counseling on a sliding scale. Good luck to you- be strong!