I like this boy who has a girlfriend

It is happining to me right now I have a crush and he has a girlfriend and she might break-up with him she doesnt like him that much and I told my friend if they broke up yet she said no not yet I cant take it anymore I feel his girlfriend hates me but my friends said she doesnt hate you now… I have this party and they are both going !!! I would not mess with there relationship and be friends with the guy first if he likes you a little bit thats okay if he like likes you a lot and his girlfriend dumped him dont go for him maybe he must be not a good guy wait … a little while before the next move remember .. opposites attract !!! I also need advice too if I go to my friends party and there are both going should go or should I not I act like im not myself!!!

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Well ima be real with you I like this boy that has a girlfriend/babymama…well now his my man and my babydaddy now she still his babymama can’t nothing change that…he left her for me they were togetha for 2 years and I dont see why she couldnt see that he was cheating on her…but hell I say go for it to tell you the truth…you gotta find love some how…

Eh…with monicakay81991, that is one rare case. Sometimes they go for it and sometimes they don’t…I don’t really think you should quite go for it, you don’t want to end up hurt, so I’d say wait it out. No offense monica…it’s just that it is usually the case that if they left they’re old girlfriend for you, than it’s likely they can leave you…this guy hasn’t obviously…but all guys are different.

I have the exact same problem, and my plan is just to wait and wait until the break up, and then I’ll be there for him when he is upset and then maybe something will happen between us. but if you mess with their relationship now, the guy might see through it and be angry with you for trying to ruin his relationship, which would put you in a very bad place. Good luck, and be patient, your time will come!!

There isn’t a whole lot to do right now; you can’t force yourself to not like him anymore. So just let him know subtly that you’re interested, and that way he’ll know that if he wants to be with you, he can. If that doesn’t work then all you can do is wait until you meet someone else or just get over it in your own time. There’s no point in trying to break them up, trust me - if it does work, there will be some sort of resentment deep down for that ‘scheming’ side of you that the guy will worry about.

I am madly in love with a boy who’s in my school but three grades older… we’ve never talked, but he smiles at me sometimes. (GORGEOUS smile. He’s drop-dead hot. That’s not why I like him though.) He hangs out with this girl who’s a grade older than him; I’m not sure if they’re dating but they’re constantly together and talking and laughing. My friends all say I’m really stupid to keep on loving him because it’s OBVIOUS that he and this girl are perfect for each other, but they don’t get it. I know we’ll probably never get married or anything. But whenever he’s anywhere near me, I just look in total awe of how perfect he is and it’s really obvious, but I can’t help it because he’s just that awesome. He’s got curly dark hair, is really tall, and plays tennis like Roger Federer. Come to think of it, he even looks like Roger Federer. If I ever see his name on TV when watching a tennis match, I’ll know he became the next Roger Federer. He has it in him. But he’s so d@mn cute it drives me insane that I’m too shy to walk up and say “hi, great weather we’re having today” or something stupid like that.

I can’t even say hi.

there’s this guy in my tutions who I really really like…but he has a girlfriend…my friends said he keeps looking at me and gives all those signs…what should I do…and there is another complication…umm…I alsp happen to have a boyfriend…I know I sound like a slut but what do I do???

In all reality I would go for it ! I mean im not saying be a home wrecker but if he likes you and you like him and hes willing to mess around with you behind his girlfriends back then obv. hes not 100 percent happy in the relationship so go for it ! but only if he likes you too : )

I like this boy named doug and we was messing around a lot and he didn’t told me he had a gilfriend until he gave me his email and password to his account than I founded out he was still talking to her..I wanna tell his girlfriend,cause I feel so bad..what should I do?

Just try and get over him, don’t intrude on their relationship.

I LOVE THIS BOY SO MUCH BUT HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND WE ARE BEST FRIENDS HIS NAME IS HAMMY(SCOTT HAMILTON) HES SO HOT , HES IN MY SCHOOL HES GOING OUT WITH TAYLOR BURKE (STUPID COW)

please HELP ME

WELL I GUESS YALL RITE…UM just GNNA WAIT TIL DA TYM IS RITE because I NO IT ANT RITE 2 BREAK UP A GOOD RELATIONSHIP

well I told the guy that im wiht now that I liked him when he was with another girl he left her for me and now we are in love we have been together for a lil over a year and we are gettin married so I say go for it

Don’t try 2 mess things up between them and lets say for some reason you do and he starts talkin to u… and dumps the other girl. what makes you think he won’t do the same to u. Just be on the lookout to see how things go between them I guess if you REEEALY like him. I went through the same thing but I waited for the right chance, as soon as the boy that I liked had a break up with the girl he was with, I went for it. That was a few years ago. NOW he’s my Fiance:) I love him sooo much!! Good luck though.

Well I have the same problem. Im inlove in this boy for 10 months. He has a girlfriend and he is almost 17 but I really do love him ... He had told me that he likes me but he told me also that there was another girl who he liked for long time ... He said that there was time and wed see whatd happen ... and... they are together now and I cant stop thinkinabout him ... I dont mess in their relationship but I really dont know what to do ps: sry for the grammar but Im still studying ;)

I have liked this guy for just a few month now. We go to the same school and I found out by on of his mates that he liked me and so because I liked him I thought there was hope, but this all ended when I found out by this friend of myn that he had some other girlfriend. so when he realised I knew we spoke and he told me that he did like me but he had a girlfriend and that he did not wanted to leave her. What do I do know??? I really dont know if someone understands what I feel and would give the right advice cause he has someone else and I dont wanna forget him

I am going through the exact same thing. I met this boy in my math class last year. I had a little crush on him but he had a girlfriend and I respected that so I dropped it. We are out of highschool now and we have texted a little bit and I began to like him a lot. Now I do not want to be a homewrecker but I really like this boy. My plan is to wait it out, I am just scared I guess. I don’t want a chance for us to be together to pass us by. People kept saying they could tell he liked me a lot…girlfriend or not, but I don’t know if he can tell that I like him. I want to tell him so badly but I am so scared.

Well I have the same problem. Im inlove in this boy for 10 months. He has a girlfriend and he is almost 17 but I really do love him ... He had told me that he likes me but he told me also that there was another girl who he liked for long time ... He said that there was time and wed see whatd happen ... and... they are together now and I cant stop thinkinabout him ... I dont mess in their relationship but I really dont know what to do ps: sry for the grammar but Im still studying ;)

I am in the same situation right now, a good friend gave me the advice to let their relationship run it’s course and if they do break up, let him know how you feel.

I really like this boy at my school but he has a girlfriend, but I believe it’s best to just move on and maybe try to be friends with him and let him know you do like him but your not trying to get with him because he has a girl and you respect that.

I like this boy in my class and I have for like 6 months now. He asked me out and I said no, because everyone was telling me he was joking. I recently found out he wasn’t joking and was going to ask him out and then he got a girl. I talk to him a lot on msn and we get on really well. Me and this girl are deffo not mates, I hated her before they started going out, but I would never mess in their relationship. I couldn’t do that to this girl, even though I don’t like her. I’d wait til they break up.