Is there a way to test my daughter without her knowing? She is refusing a test
the best way would be to tell her that even if she was pregnant
you would be okay with it
if shes had sex she might be refusing because she doesnt want you to know shes sexually active
and unfortunatly when kids are sexually active, they dont usyually tell there parents
so try to sit her down and have a talk
get her to speak up about it and listen to her
talk about prehaps getting her on birth control or buy her things she needs like condoms, ect
I know you probably wont want your daughter having sex now
but if she is, the best thing you can do for her is give her all the facts, tell her what shes getting herself into and encourage safe sex
also make sure you or someone else teachers her about
contraception, birth control, pregnancy and sti/stds
if she feels she can trust you and you dont get agnry at her for what shes doing
its likley shell tell you about what shes doing so you can help her out and give her advice
you could also take her to a doctor and if they think its nessessary,
theyll get her to take a test
if shes 18 or over though, shes an adault and is responisble for making her own decisions
Why do you suspect that she is pregnant?
Could it be that she isn't, and knows it, but that you have become confrontational with her so she is refusing the test to spite you?
How old is she?
Again, what makes you think she is pregnant? Could it just be you jumping to conclusions because you and she are going through a difficult time in your relationship?
My suggestion is that you open a line of communication with her that expresses your love for her and your concern for her welfare. Don't worry about the pregnancy issue. If she is, it will tell in due course. Remember, you and she live in two different worlds. Yours may deal more with reality, but hers is just as real to her.
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I know what its like to have a mother get information out of you.
im fifteen and honeslty, if she's refusing to, its just how teenagers are.
its embarrassing to us to discuss this with our parents but it really does
help if you sit her down and talk about it, make it short and feel understanding.
theres nothing worse than an awkward convo. with your mom when
they dont even understand.
so basically, she may "hate" you if you take her, but she will later thank you and
you guys will be on better terms after discussing this. just remember, dont make her feel like she has made a terrible mistake and that you're mad.
well look taking control is never the answer . when parents do that it gives the kid a reason not to do what you say . and when you think there going to do it they do the complete other thing you say no matter what . just remeber back to when you were a kid . and how you felt when your parents did that to you .
just dit down and talk to her about it and whats going to happen if she is pregnant. then she might agree. and take it
but message me back and tell me if everything is ok
you could disable the flusher on the toilet and remove all the water and... just kidding.
Like what many others have said, if she won't take it, that pretty much answers the question.
It is a serious issue however, if she IS pregnant she needs to be taking care of herself and the baby for a healthy pregnancy, which means she needs to see a doctor.
Explain to her the importance from that aspect.
If you talk to her and she still refuses though, you have no choice but to take action. She is a minor and you have her best interest at heart. You are the mother and you need to do what is right.
Not really. You are her parent though, you can take her to a health clinic or doctor if she is under 18 years old and she will have to take a test.
she's probably pregnant if she is refusing to take one, thats the only test you need right there
YOU are the Parent - take control !!