What to do if I'm pregnant but don't believe in abortion?

WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU THAUGHT YOU WHERE pregnant BECAUSE YOUR MATE SPERMED IN YOU BUT THEN YOU DIDNT WANT A BABY BECAUSE YOU WHERE TO YOUNG BUT YOU LOVE BABYS SOO MUCH AND YOU DIDNT BELIEVE IN ABORTIONS WHAT WOULD YOU DO BUT ME I LOVE BABYS SOO MUCH AND I DREAM ABOUT HAVING ONE BUT NOT AT THIS AGE AND BY THE WAY IM 13 {YEAH I KNOW A BIG SURPRISE}

Answer #1

You chose to act like an adult, now you must be an ‘Adult’..Do not make that Baby pay for your mistake..Adoption to an established, Loving Family is a great option..not surprising, sad..I hope you make better choices in the future..wish you the best !!

Answer #2

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Answer #3

tell yur parents and give the kid up, let it have a health life.. im 15 and couldnt even have a kid, let alone you being two years younger.

Answer #4

omg .. if u are really tellin the truth.. then we are in the same predicament.. only im 16.. i kno i cant have a baby but i rather kill myself then have an abortion.. i love babies.. but i kno my family wld disown me

Answer #5

if ur pregnant have da baby if u need someone to talk to call

Answer #6

Dear remiah, The first thing is to find out if your pregnant first. If you are then you need to speak with a doctor about your choices. He may refer you to a family counsellor where they will also give you some options. A lot of people don’t believe in abortions but go on to make good choices from a bad situation. Sue..good luck

Answer #7

ok well what i would do in this case is adoption! if you are pregnent and you dont beleive in abortion than adoption is the best way to go! good luck! xoxo ~Meghan

Answer #8

Well, if I were sexually active and did not want a baby, I would use birth control. In the rare event that it failed, and I did not believe in abortion, then I suppose I would put the baby up for adoption.

Answer #9

heya. well, you need! to find out if you are pregnant. If you are you need to stay calm and try not to get way stressed (it can be hard for the baby). at 13 i don’t think you weould be agle to take care of the baby along with yourself. You want to do what’s best for the baby. if you still want to be in your babies life go for an open adoption. This mean that the baby and you can be in contact before the child’s age of 18. You will be able to pick the family for the baby if you want. There are many married couples that want children but can’t have them. GOOD LUCK! ((OH! if you decide to give the baby up for adoption have an agency help you. Private Adoptions can have more problems then Agency ones! Good luck! If you need ne help, contact me))

Answer #10

okay you shouldnt ask people what would they do it’s all about you!! what should you do , i dont believe in abortion’s too, but i was in that same sitch as you!!it turn’ed out that i was not preg but if you are then that’s just a price you have to pay for what you did, but i wish you all the luck!! sexy yung thing

Answer #11

Whether the child will come out from you alive or dead, you will always be connected to him/her. You will always be her mother. It will be a connection that you can’t ignore and which will be more stronger than the world. Choose to be connected with him/her alive.

However, if you think it would be better for her future,as they say, you can always choose adoption.

Answer #12

Dang girl..I can’t really tell you what you should do but if your not willing to have this baby then find a family who isn’t as fortunate to have kids and let them adopt yours. I really am sorry for what you have to go through but you made the decision when you did what you did. Just do right for the baby, its not about you anymore you might have a lil one in that stomche of yours. Good Luck especially when you tell your mom or who ever your guardian is.

Answer #13

well first you need to let someone know because your gunna need medical advice and so on for your self as well as the baby.even if its not you perants,im sure there is some sort of clinic you could go to? maybe they could help you tell your perants.all you have to remeber is that you perants love you and yes there going to be angry,upset but at the end of the day they would do anything for you and its not a bad thing you’ve done.then you could sit with your perants and discuss this with them and see what they can advise you.and after this what ever you decide to do, next time use protection,or better still dont have sex because well really your just a kid,trust me at your age it would be better waiting you would gain more from it when your older

Answer #14

Not Autumn but her mom: First make sure you are with child. Before you consider abortion make sure this is something you can live with after it is done. The truma of aboartion afterwards is harder then most people can imagine. Talk with you mom about what is going on with you. If you can or find an responsible adult that you trust and share your thoughts with them. You can make it thru this with the help of God. He will never leave you nor forsake you. Trust Him Proverbs 3:5-7

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