Convincing my parents for a piercing?

ok. so im 13. I reallly want to either have my nose or lip pierced! but my rents automatically sed no. any advice on how to convince them?

Answer #1

I had the exact same problem parents are the worse people to try and convince but all I think you can do is tell them that you can look after it do things that will make you seem mature that’s all I can think of really.x. hope it helped

Answer #2

no way their going to change their mind cause they seem like they are like my parents and im older then you and I wanted a third hole and they said when I get out of their house so that may be yo anwser but I hope everything goes well

Answer #3

Parents can get annoying like that times… they’re parents… it’s what they do lol my dad is exactly like that, but my mom is completely different luckily. Just talk it out with them. Don’t get whinny or beg them 24/7 or they’ll NEVER give in. Just say “ok, I know you’ve said no once… but could I maybe just get my nose done first?” Maybe even tell them your willing to have a SMALL stud first too, then your proving your willing to work with them/make deals. If they still say no… let it go and wait until your 18… then you can get it done WITHOUT parental permission XD

Answer #4

at 13 id advise you to wait make sure you actually want holes in your face sont get them to be “cool” or because everones else does both those peircings also will affect your school and work life a school with a dress code wont allow them and most jobs hate them and there condidered unprofesional and there not easy to hide, because there on your face also if you decide to take them out later on youll be left with a small pimple sized scar, that only fades with time and depending on how long you have them in for (many years) sometimes the hole cant even close up so wait longer, and have a think if its really something you want …the only thing that do is sit there and look pretty theres no rush to get holes in your face and DO NOT get your nose, or anything peirced with the gun people at the salon and mall are unprofesional and unqualifyed the gun if full of germs from other peoples blood because they dont sterilize it, they just wipe it

Answer #5

Ask them to give you good reasonable answers on why you cannot have it done because afterall, it is just appearance it doesn’t change who you are. Piercing your lips or your nose does not turn you into a bad person. They like the clothes and accesories they wear because its what THEY PERSONALLY THINK look nice so tell them it is unfair for them to not let you have a say in what looks nice to you.

By the way, you’re 13-years-old, I suggest you to wait at least another year and see if things changes. There are some things I wanted back then that I think is very trashy now.

Answer #6

HA! when I was 13 I was lucky if I got to wear a mini skirt. im 16 now and have spider bites and trust me, at 13, you’ll regret getting your lip or nose done. besides you cant get anything besides your ears done professionally until your 16. so my advice is wait until you know fa sho thats what you want to do or at least until your older.

Answer #7

Your parents are doing their best to look after your best interests - they love you and care - be Thankful many, many parents don’t care - nose piercings can interfere with some jobs / hiring and lip can damage teeth / gums - just research thoroughly…Take care !!

Answer #8

OH and add in to your parents how piercings can be removed and heal at anytime if you change your mind (although it may leave minor scars) so it’s not like its something you will have for the rest of your life they shouldn’t worry.

Answer #9

Uhm I got my nose periced and I had to convince my parents. I wanted it done at your age got it at 15. Maybe wait a few years and ask OR Get the nose percing and tell them “The nose pericing is small and if I wear the stud its not really seeable. The lip ring you can see can I get the nose pericing?”

Answer #10

I know what you mean well not really but I want my cartillouge periced and my mom doesnt care but my dad hates percings what can I do to convince my dad?

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