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I have a boyfriend that I really like as far as personality goes.. But I’ve seemed to have lost my physical attraction for him. Whenever we make out im almost.. Turned off by it because hes a terrible kisser and its kinda gross kissing him. I feel bad for focusing on the outer appearence but I cant really help it. How can I tell my boyfriend that hes a bad kisser without telling him hes a bad kisser?

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Answer #1

Maybe he needs the hard facts. I was not a very good kisser for a long time until an ex kinda blurted it out in front of everyone because I told her off. But once I knew I was willing to learn so just work on it just don’t let it be because if something does not make you happy fix it. Just while you are making out tell him little things to fix what he is doing and sooner or later he’ll pick up on it.

Answer #2

Dear xoxelizabeth92, So you were attracted to him once…you found him attractive at one time and it wasn’t a problem…so I am going assume something else is going on. Was he always a bad kisser? Other people are not responsible to know what you like or want. People don’t read minds no matter how hard they try. Try some honesty and try showing him what you want. Who really has changed here…you or him? Sue…good luck

Answer #3

I dumped him lol

Answer #4

I would Honestly jst suggest some other way’s of kissing and you could drop hints about it

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