I find it completely annoying espcially when I go to school with a girl who is my friend and all she talks about is how she's gonna marry one of the ICONic Boyz, and live in New Jersey in his hometown with him. I asked her to calm it down but she basically went "crybaby" on me. I apologized even though I'm not really sorry, just don't wanna have to deal with that awkward tension with her once we get back to school. I just think girls and guys who do this need to face the facts and reality. The chances of you and him or her actually getting together aren't impossible just REALLY REALLY SLIM. I wish she was mature and would realize that most of celebrities don't care about their fans, they just care for the money and publicity.
I don't find anything wrong with it, if that's what makes her happy then let her be. She will get over it one day, you two are only 14, it's better she has celebrity crushes then moving on to what a lot of kids are doing these days. Not everything has to be focused on "reality" it's nice to pretend and have a little fun. Like I said, you guys are only 14, there's no need to be mature and realize that. Let her be a kid and fantasize about w wonderful life she could have one day because one day she's going to have to work all the time to manage an average family, bills and more. She should be a kid and immature while she can, soon you'll all have to be mature adults and wont get the opportunity to do those.
The thing is, it is extremely natural for people your age to have celebrity crushes and to sort of obsess over certain famous people. I'm pretty sure your friend knows that there is a slim chance of her marrying "ICONic Boyz" or whatever, haha. She's just having fun and dreaming, you know? I can understand how this may annoy you if she is constantly talking about them, but, in my opinion, it's nothing to get so annoyed over. Just don't respond to her when she does this, and she'll get the hint. In time, people like this will get over it gradually as they grow older. I don't really agree with the last statement you made, though, about how most celebrities don't care about their fans. How do you know that?
I mean yeah but there's a difference. I don't fantasize about marrying him, or trying to this and that. I just wanted to know how he died, a few personal things about him, and (what I thought were signs) in a few of Queen's song. I don't fangirl about them. I respect their work and Freddie's solo career.
As much as I'd like to go on and on about how stupid it is to worship celebrities, she's just being a girl her age. That's how girls are now a days. Let her obsess, she'll grow out of it soon enough.
But you sorta talk about Freddy Mercury a lot and Queen xD , Well anyway I mean it's a normal thing, and how would you know if they 'Don't care about their fans?'
They have no life and a lot of time on their hands! :-)