How do i tell my parents that i don't want to live now?

i am fed up with my life,so anybody know how can i tell them that i don’t want to go hospitals anymore,this is getting difficult now and i don’t want any treatment because i am very tired of it,this is my life,i know what i want but i am just worried they will get upset.

Answer #1

judging from your question, i am making a guess that your very ill, have went through many treatments, none work and your tired and want to give up? without further information though i personally cant really help you since my advice would depend on what exactly is wrong with you

Answer #2

Have your ever seen the movie “My sisters keeper” ? if you havent you should. Noones going to force you to stay, i understand youre tired, and that you feel hopeless, but thats not the case, there are so many cases of people who WANT to live, who have hope that they will get better. You WILL get better, i have no doubt in my mind about you Yashica. Life passes you by instantly, learn to live it. You cant just lye down & give up the fight, dont IT beat you. You seem to be a very strong girl babe, youre only 15yrs old. Things will get better, i know they will. I know it hurts, & i know what it feels like to feel defeated, but the fight isnt over & you have alot of cheerleaders on this site. I believe in you, time to believe in yourself :)♥

Answer #3
  • dont let IT beat you.
Answer #4

If you have something that there is no possibility of survival, then maybe talk to your Dr. about how you feel, and he can talk to your parents.

Answer #5

So you are sick and they are traying to make you feel better by going to hospitals and having treatment right? Well you have to understand a perent will go far to save your life when you are sick… loosing a kid is tough on a perent. You have to understand your perents side too. But if what you have is something that can be cured don’t give up just like that. I’m thinking that you have some kind of medical condition? If it’s like a theraphy thing they are putting you in then that is your choice to tell the teraphist that you don’t want that… This question needs a little more explination.

Answer #6

Well, Yashica, I don’t know of any parent who would let their child go down without fighting every step until the bitter end. I don’t know your disease, the course of your treatment, or your prognosis. But I can tell you that no matter what you’re feeling, tell your parents. It doesn’t matter if you fear their emotions or actions as a result, you must do it. They are suffering through every step with you, believe that. Share your journey with them at all times, especially if you want to give up the fight.

Answer #7

I think if you don’t want the treatment, then you should ask for a trip around the world. Visit France, buy a dress you’ll never wear. Do something for yourself, after a month maybe, think if you want the treatment to go on.

There is so much you would miss out on.

Inventions, a new baby in the family, your friends. They all matter, don’t they?

And tell your parents, they care for you, they’ll be willing to listen to you even if they become emotional.

Answer #8

I think that you’re a very bright and intelligent person. Sure, you might feel like these treatments aren’t working for you and that it’s nothing but a waste of time and money, but it’s not. Being treated for your illness gives us (the public) a chance to spend time with you.

If you want to listen to me then I’d tell you to keep on living. I would let you know that you will make it out better than you feel now. I know it’s tough, it’s not an easy thing to do. But we all have faith in you no matter what. Think it over for a few days and decide if this is really what you want to give up just to let an illness win over you. I think you’re better than that.

Answer #9

No parent is going to just let their child go. They love you and want the best for you, so when they found out you were sick they probably were willing to do anything to keep you alive, and most likely they still feel like that now. I’m not going to tell you to keep on living, to force yourself to live, or to put yourself through misery. sit down with your parents and talk to them about this. most likely they wont let you go, but they have to know what you’re feeling. they might suprise you in their responses. you never know. i hope you feel better

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