What should I do about my parents hurting me so much?

Umm… depends on what you mean by hurt… if you mean like beating, call the police or tell someone. If you mean emotional, you’re just gonna have to deal, sorry. Maybe tell a counsler.

Try to pay attention more. take more notes. and if its your friends making you pay less attention. its not your parents faults, trust me i’ve been through this, and im in the prosess in recovering. Your parents are only looking out for you.

your parents might be overreacting, when you were little you got good grades cause it was easy but now you get below average grades so they think that by being strict they can help you by putting enough pressure on you to do schoolwork

Sounds like my parents. If you say I can’t help it or something they don’t wanna hear that’s just. An excuss for wanting to argue with you even more which will hurt you more. Just agree or say your sorry, I will try to improve my grades. Will really work I know I hated it when someone told me that too because I hate agreeing or telling them thereright

never tell them unless you mean it, it will cause less pain in the long run.

just say your trying your hardest and are gonna continue to. if you say i cant help it or its just that idont get it or any other excuse, thats gonna give them a reason to yell at you. just try your hardest or go to tutoring. i’ve been thru this last year and it was not fun. what so ever. hope i helped, good luck sweetie.

try your best, and make sure they know that you are doing so. maybe ask a teacher for extra help one day. if you want it enough, i have no doubt you’ll be able to achieve good grades =) and as for your parents, as long as they realize you are working hard and trying your best, i’m sure they will calm down a little. tell them you don’t understand and ask for their help. that will show them that you actually care and are trying (even if in reality - you don’t care that much… lol) hopefully this will help

In my opinion, your parents’ behavior may have less to do with you and more to do w/their own problems. Many families are under added stress during these tough economic times. Parents get short-tempered and sometimes vent on their kids. They love you. They do not realize how much they are hurting you. Try to sit them down and tell them how you feel. But if they get really mentally or physically abusive, go tell a trusted minister or teacher.

I agree… Sit down and tell them that you want to make things work.. You feel hurt.. and you want it to stop. I understand what you mean. My dad gets mad at me for absolutly no reason. I will be having a conversation with my mom and he will yell at me and tell me things… UGH! I know what you mean.

Tell them that the yelling and screaming is not helping the cause tell them that it mae you feel bad, and that you are traying your best. Meaby try turoring so you can raise that grade.