How can I get my parents to understand me?

they never understand me. they are always more intrested in my sister. shes even gone to university and they are still more bothered about her than they ever are with me I just wish they understood what was going on in my head!!! its like no matter what I do they dont care…they always compare me to her and when I say that they are.. there like no we dont do that its like well you just did… I just wish I could leave home but I cant because im only 14…u hate it so much why dont they understand that my life is crap… I dont know what I should do? I have tried to talk to them but it doesnt work they dont listen they just block me out their lives completely what should I do??

Answer #1

You do not know of what a life classified as “crap” feels to your body and mind. Hello, millzey 07, my temporary ailis is animegirlzzz. I am 14 as well but my IQ exceeds 135 at least. My mother, of as average intelligence as you can possibly obtain and like most parents, she is difficult for people to bare. My father belives I am clueless as to what I am refering to and my little sister abuses us physicly and emotionaly near every day. I have but no experience as a younger sibling but as an older one. My mother feels that my sister is better simply because she is of inferior intelligence to I and henceforth she is rotten and “throws fits” and “tattle tales” at the age of 12. My mother “tattle tales” as well to my father because they have the perverbeal disability to settle things by themselves with someone of signifigently higher intelligence. The irony is that they state I am intelectually inept in the social catagory. All my family members and the people around me have one thing in common. They do not listen to me. They state the obvious which angers me. They are basiclly stupid in comparison to I. You belive your life is Hell, live in a minority’s shoes. I am sicken at thou. You lose, good day sir.

Answer #2

i can garuntee u that ur life doesnt suck that bad… thats wat tends to happen wen ur the youngest. same with me… just try to go with it for a while and then eventually ur parents will get over their phase. trust me…i tried it and it worked

hope i helped caramel

Answer #3

That Used to Happen to me. Well, It still does, but Rarely. My sis has everything Perfect! Her room is tidy and perfect. Her clothes are perfect. and Guys are attracted to her than me.

I hope that you’ll soon be the BEST that Ever Happened to your Parents! Try impressing them. . . think about it.. What does your sister do that impresses or attracts your parents? Do the same! Do something More! I don’t know… Something!

Good Luck!

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