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Why can't my boyfriend bring me to orgasm?

Ok, well i have been dating this wonderful guy, but for some reason i can stimulate myself and make myself get there, but for some reason, he can never get there not through sex or fingering… i’m not totally comfortable pleasuring myself in front of him, what do you think i can do to get him to give me an orgasim? please help!!!!

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Answer #1

You should help yourself by your own way at the same time when he is doing you. You have to find the best position for that. That is not easy, but not impossible. Being “unconfortable” with pleasuring yourself in front of him is exactly that inhibition in you that does not allow you to org@sm when f*king. In such a situation there is no place for cramp.

Answer #2

It’s not uncommon to not be able to orgsm during intercourse. If you’re not completely comfortable with your partner, that can make a difference. Relax. Try different things. Show him what works for you; show him how you do it when you are alone. Make sure you tell him what feels good and what does not so that he can learn about your body. Oral sx might be a good place to start since more women orgsm that way than any other way.

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