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No Confidence and Ugly

I’m really ugly.Im 19 My body is ok, and I am 6’2” , but I lack any good facial features. My Jaw isn’t strong, I have a receeding chin, No prominent cheekbones, shit hair(its thick and frizzy), green eyes, and bad skin, its not spotty or anything, but its got damaged from the sun when I was younger and its just obvious..

It’s sad really, since all my friends are pretty good looking, and I just pretend to be fussy when it comes to girls, but in reality, I just can’t attract anyone(no sh*t). I suppose I am a loser with no confidence, and I’m pretty stuck, I think I should just give up and forget about it. While I type this I’m laughing because it’s almost funny how sad I am, but I just thought I’d voice this and see if anyone has anything to say about it, besides : You’re a loser.

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Answer #1

In reading your question and your follow-up your head is way up your ass! So when women see you they see the shit that was put there because of what others said. If you don’t like your chin fix it! The consults are free and it’s only one of many things you can fix on the outside.

Confidence well there is a crap load! Don’t say I can’t anymore because of what you heard and hear! Stop, listen most of it is what you heard. With age comes depth! So get your head out of your ass, people are looking deep. And I know you don’t want them finding you in there. Laugh alot if you don’t know what else to do. Don’t put thoughs girls down because you want your friends to think your pickie. You won’t being dating a super model and Alf is out of the question too! LOL

Fix what you can, love what is and love what will never be! If you have to take an extra job to make things change on the outside do it. Stop bitching you will look better and on a start to feeling better too!

MrsZ

Answer #2

Maybe you should get it in perspective. Read my story:

http://www.funadvice.com/?xq=4912

No problem is insurmountable.

Answer #3

dude. no wonder u cant attract girls first off some girls dont go for looks but u being a jack off like that u’ll never find one grt some nuts man and get some Confidence btw ur a loser to lol not really

-Tonya

Answer #4

The thing is this though : Even though girls like “Confidence” they would prefer a guy with no personality who is good looking rather then I guy who isn’t that good looking with personality. When I say “Personality” it doesn’t mean hes “Funny” “smart” etc. I just means he isn’t bland, and like the same rubbish that everyone else likes. I believe that Humour is certainly a good point in attracting women, but I always seem to become “friends” with them…..sucks. I mean keeping eye contact and mirroring body language , as well as complimenting goes only so far….what else is there?

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