How do I stop allowing the negative words of others affect me?? it drives me insane to the point where I wanna do something to myself.. I don't know what thou hah. but yeah. I feel like im not loved by that person, but I think their jealous too. of me body- not trynna nag or anything lmao but my bodys like teh best thng bout me so yeah. but they keep hurting my feelings. im not great in sports =[ im quite, shy... but im mostly quite but I can be pretty loud, random and crazy too so yeah! but how can I let it stop me frmo comming to me. you can answer relaating to christianity if you would like but please help me! :) thanks uuu!! =]
There are people who can only feel better about themselves when they tear other people down. They say that stick and stones can break your bones but names can never hurt you; of course now we know how damaging verbal abuse can be. Some kids have been literally driven to suicide by the taunts of other kids.
Remember that the kids who say cruel things to you are doing so because of their own shortcomings rather than yours. The best thing you can do is to keep your own dignity and let them demean themselves. Don't stoop to their level.
Sorry but actually you cannot stop people from using negative words on you. But you find a solution to your problem. You can find a way to stop the negative words from affecting you. That way is to invite Jesus into your heart. He will come in and He will be in you and Help you from within. That will be a much better help that any of us could ever give you. From withing He will help you with the solution to you because He would be able to see everything from your perspective.