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im shy but a lot of people think I think that I think im better than everybody else and all stuck up! but im really nice. I have no true friends! and im bad at making friends I don't know why but I just really am! any advice? I dont think they think im ugly...but fat maybe? but then again I have people telling me that im gorgeous. so I really dont know why I have a hard time! please any advice?
I can relate to you. One on one with people are great for me. However, when I get in large groups I tend to be quiet and some people would take it as I'm being stuck up or think I'm better than others. You'll always find people like that! I've seen the most sociable person be considered as stuck up. what you have to do, is be true to yourself. Be comfortable with who you are. Be around people that love you for you. You must love yourself first. That's very important. People can just feel when someone has a high self esteem. And they cling to that positive energy. If you don't believe in you, who will?
Wow! you sound like me just 1 year ago. I had no true friends. but what I did was went to a new school where I had a fresh start, and made new 1s. it was hard but I kinda had to change my personality to being more outgoing! seriously people like it when your fun to hang around so dont b shy just like jump into anythng that you thnk is cool; and be outgoing!! also try different activites that many people do and your area haha from your profile pic you look pretty. lol good luck!
I've been there before. I started a new school last year that was much larger than my old school so I was new and didn't know anyone and I was really shy a lot of people thought that I thought I was better than anyone. Just find that group of people that you feel most comfortable with and just be yourself and forget about everyone else who thinks bad about you.
whoa... well first of all take a deep breath ok ill assume youve done that now you need to think to yourself 'who am I' (generally speaking)
as far as finding true friends goes... just be yourself and someone will appreciate you for WHO YOU ARE the next thing you would do is simple...just show respect and youll get the same in return
I'm sure you can prove all those nay sayers wrong just by opening your mouth. Start saying hi to people. Get in a conversation. Ask people how their days are going and give them a chance to open up to you. If you aren't making yourself available to making friends, you won't.
It isn't hard making friends. If your not in any sports or clubs at your school then join some. That is a great way to make friends. If your not into clubs or sports, start a conversation about something that happened in class to one of your peers. Hope I helped. =)
look trust yourself be who you r dont be another one friends can come and can be asked to come to have a true friend be yourself with your friend say everything truly dont lie to have a nive friendship that lasts for lot of years
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Don't worry about what other people think about you... if they have a problem with you..they will have to get over it. Just be yourself around people..and eventually you will find some people you click with. Good Luck!!
I forgot to tell you accept yourself being even fat is not bad yeah and showing that you are the best is not bad be proud of your self but in the same don't insult anyone while showing that you are the best
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can we say just a big ego? dont worry just learn to live with a big ego! like me!
