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After just splitting p from my former fiance who I cheated on and talked about or whole lives and children and all that wold have came true but I wrecked it,. My boyfriend who is 19 dosnt have any desire to b a dad or have or a husband right know and I dont blame him because he is so young but thats what I really wanted and I want it to am sad. A lot of people I went to school with have kids got engaged or are married and I am jealouse cause that was supposed to be me, I just sob aot and whine to my boyfriend about it which makes him sad and I want to stop because I dont want it to hurt our relationship How do I get over the fact im not engaged anymore and I am not going to be a mother anytime s00n.

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Answer #1

ya your rite I cjeated on my fiance with him so he knows everything, and I gess I took a step in the right direction because I have a kitten

Answer #2

Just remember that its for the best - I mean rushing things would send your relationship off in the wrong direction. I suggest though you stop sobbing to your boyfriend now because I’m sure it makes him feel like hes in a weird position. And since I’m assuming he knows you cheated on your former fiance it probley makes it hard for him to fully commit to the relationship. Just take things as slow as you can and do whats best for both of you. Maybe buying a kitten or a puppy would give you some comfort because it seems like you just want to take a new responsibility on.

Answer #3

im sorry you have to go through that …

Answer #4

ha ha thanks

Answer #5

ya I wont be asking questions I domt want to ask my dmbass boyfriend on here because he snoops on here and reads em anyway and then teases me bout it to top it off!

Answer #6

Well good luck.

P.S Woot woot for being a Canadian girl! :)

Answer #7

yai am still wondering what to do about it , just get over it lol! I dunno I was so excited and now I know that day is not coming soon.

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