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My Sudden Depression

On my birthday I got the biggest shock!!! I found out my mom was pregnant!!! I can’t stop crying and im not crying because I’m happy…For some reason I feel old,and like when that kid is 15 I’ll be 30!!! Like I’m really depressed and it may seem selfish but I just really don’t want to be an older sister and I feel like I want to say the kid and I talked to my Mon aboout it and no one understands!! Like she thinks this well help us all bond when I cant feel more alone then I do now..on top of that I’m moving to a total different city,and I’m taking it hard cause like I have a best friend who I’ve known for 5 years and like I’m going to be going to a high school where I no zero people!!! And to make things worst I just got threw this whole big confrontation with sum one I thought loved me…I guess I just feel extremly stressed and I don’t know just confused and its hard cause I tend to get attached to my frends and now I have to move after 5 years of frendship!!! So I guess now that my moms prego then thats just adding on to my fear of getting older…if you have any advice about how to deal with this better it would be highly appreciated!!!

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Answer #1

you are 15, trust me life gets better as you get older. as for the new kid, I think you are alittle old to be suffering from new baby syndrome(not a sciencetific term). but you do get to look foward to babysitting and people thinking that it is your kid(ok sorry that is not helping), this will be a good life skill, you can help your mum with the baby and I have always found that when a guy see a woman with with a baby it is the mosy beautiful thing in the world, the girls eyes kinda shine and she seems to be happy inside(sorry side tracked again). you just hang in there, try and look for the positive. life works like waves, with high time you need the low, it just up to you on how low you go. think of it as a new start, nobody knows you so you could become a new person, reinvent yourself

Answer #2

well you are going through a faise that many do go through. so much is being piled onto you at once that your brain cant handle it and because you are a girl you cant help but cry to let out your stress. dont worry about making new friends in the new school. you can still keep in touch with your best friend. I have a best friend and she moved to maryland and left me here and we still talk and hang on breaks and stuff. you had to make friends somehow in the beginning just itll be easier this time around because you are older, more experienced and people will notice you are new to the school and help you out. have you ever had a new student in your class and notice all those peple talk to that person. the same thing will happen for you. its all stress that is going on. I am actually going through the same thing right now but with a different perspective and problem. youll get through it dont worry about it ^ ^ … hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~

Answer #3

hey ya mate, umm well I don’t have much experience with the matter but I have 3 other brothers, 2 older, 1 younger and it’s not that bad because like im a family person, I love my family and wouldn’t trade them 4 the world, you no this could b good 4 u, just think that this baby is going to need you along the way in life, you will b her/his role model there will b times that it will need your advice, help and guidance throughout life and yea thats a big responsability but you will b the one she/he goes to and u just might b the 1 who moulds her/him into who they’ll become. hope this comforts you every word of its true, hope you take it to heart. xxreecexx

Answer #4

Well, you should be happy with your young brother or sister. Yes, suddenly you will be a bit older in your mother’s eye but that means also a lot of good points. E.g. you may be more independent then would be without this baby. You will find that a little baby is a big fun around you. So do not worry, you will not loose anything, but yield a lot. Cool down and wait and learn. Once you will be a mother too.

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