My mom hates me

don’t talk to her, ignore her for a while, and she will realize that you think she hates you, ask her if she hates you, run away for a couple of days and come back, and tell her that you couldn’t handle what she’s doin’, if she doesn’t understand then you should be patient and wai til’ you’re 18 so that you can get outta the house, but it’s not good to run away! you can also tell your dad about it, and if they’re devorsed then go live with your father!! or go live with your aunt! tell your aunt about what your mother (her sister) is doin’ to ye, she might talk to her! and if her sister talking to her didn’t work then just live with your aunt, uncle, who ever you think will support you and will love you and care more about you! but don’t run away and live with a stranger! even if it’s your boyfriend, don’t live with him! live with someone from your family, this way you won’t miss your mom or your family!!! and your mother will know her mistake when you live with someone else IN the family!! good luck!!!

Okay I lied. My mom is exactly the same way. She had a horrible mother and learned horrible things from her. Maybe she feels angry at me. Maybe she misses her mom (they haven’t spoken in 5 years and live 2 blocks away from each other.) But well… Know that your not alone okay?

well thats cool… I guess thing and people are different… My back is still sore :[

yeha but my moms mother has always been realy nice and they are pretty close to one another

I dont know my mom did sleep around with my dad . she has always been this way toward me .. I realy realy want to die sometimes and she doesnt care she just makes fun of it

OOps clarifying my statement “So, try to put a stop now, but when your mom is not angry”

but, when your mom is not angry.

Last thing you want to do is fire things up. :)

RUNNING AWAY IS NOT THE ANSWER!

Trust me, it does not help the situation.

Confrontation is the key, tell your mother that you will not substain this abuse! Tell her she’s wrong! Tell her how you feel!

stop talkin 2 her,runaway,ignore her thats all I got fm me 4 more

just count down the days til your 18. thats what I do. dont run away because then your mom can press unruly charges and ull go to juvy. that almost happened to me.

I would advise against being so imature as to run away. What kind of things does she put you down about? Does she think you sleep around? If you could tell us a bit more detail we might be able to help abit more, sorry.

yeah. you dont have to live with that. No mother should be saying that sh!t.

She puts me down cause I wear black cloths and a older boyfriend … she thinks I sleep around but I dont I am still a vergin … she makes me go to church cause I need to get the “devil child” out of me and says she wishes she would have gotten an abortion with me and that she hates me … some times she throws stuff at me … and made fun of me cause she found an old suiside note :{ I have tried to run away before and she did press charges I ended up going to juvy for about a week until they let me leave she wouldnt care if I did ignore her . she looks for stuff to say and do to hurt people and when she firgure out how to hurt you she never stops

I think you should try to get family counselling immediately. This doesn’t sound like a healthy situation for either of you… you bot need to be sitting in a room with an unbiased third party so you can try to deal with all these issues. Your mom sounds like someone under severe pressure and stress. Possibly there are things going on in her life that you aren’t aware of… or maybe her upbringing was not the best? Regardless, you need to fix it. If she refuses, you should go to counselling alone. Talk to your guidance counsellor at school, or call a hotline for youth in your area.

ok whatever you do dont run away, for one thing you’re going to have to come back and deal with those consequences, and secondly, all it’s going to show her is that you’re immature and can’t be trusted and give her some more names to call you… mothers can be the most unbelievably harsh creatures on earth, trust me I’ve had my mother say some pretty awful things to me before. I just ignore her now. actually used to avoid her a lot while I was growing up, not the best solution, but it kinda worked…

Well, are you? I think she has a right too if you really are, but I don’t think she should use strong words like hoe, slut, etc. If not, tell her that it makes you feel upset. If she really loves you she won’t call you words like that. Do not run away. That’s immature, and you will get in trouble. Not your mom for calling you a word. Unless she threatens to kill you, she can’t really. You can go to Juvenile Detention (Sp?) if you did that. And actually most likely you would be found. Especially if you go to a friend’s house. Hopefully you have enough sense in that head not to run away. You have to strip in front of a guard when you get there, and you have to do what you’re told.

Confront your mother by telling her that you need to talk to her. Tell her whats on your mind. Don’t sound whiny at all. Try your best to act like an adult, so shell see you more as one. Ask her what she thinks about it. Most importantly… LISTEN. I know this part sucks… and her words may be hurtful. But maybe if she feels that she let it out, then she will stop calling yoiu a slut.

Hope this helps.

My mom is KINDA the same way… she hurt my arm and back recently but…