How to stop my life from getting out of control?

you need to find out why your getting depressed, if you already know why then you have to find a way to cope with it or fix it. if it’s something that you can’t fix then you need to find a way to get you mind off it for a bit. maybe play a sport, or talk to a friend that’s not involved in the situation and you trust, about what’s going on. maybe there is something that you can do that will help you. just make sure that you know that starving and hurting yourself won’t help. it will set your hormones rageing and you will feel even worse then before. another thing you could do is to get a hobby, maybe you could collect something that could entertain you, like hot weels or baseball cards. with the failing school thing, you should talk to your teachers to see if you can stay after class with them so they can help you, if it’s because you don’t get your work done then you should have a freind who is doing ok in school call you or come t your house every day to make sure that you undersand everything and to help you stay on top of your work.

im not all that good at giving advice, but I have known some people who have gone through a rough time like you. they all say things lke this help a lot. they also say that the last thing that would help is hurting yourself in any way. just remember that this is just one part of your life, it won’t always be like this unless you make it that way by doing something stupid like drugs to help you at that moment, it will turn the rest of your life upside down and you will have to work twice as hard to get it right again.

hope this helps! good luck!