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my girl friend is 15 and im 17 her parents are keeping us from each other we live in utica ny
oooh, thats a toughy... um, so im guessing your in 11th or 12 grade and shes in 9th or 10th right? well it depends on how serious are ya'll have yall been going out for a while or not? do you love each other is another question, and is it more her parents that are keeping ya'll separated? the way I'd do it if I were you is talk to YOUR parents first,let them know this isnt some game or anything, that you reallly like her. then goto her parents and let them know whats going on, let them know that you dont want to hurt her, that you really care for her... reassure them... also if you talk to them get on there good side, get them to like you, they probrobly dont like you right now because your older adn they dont want to see there baby girl grow up... I'm 15 and I know my parents dont want me to grow up, but yet it still happens... anyway I hope this helps...good luck to you both!
since its just her parents they probrobly dont want to see her grow up... the only thing I can think of would be to go over to her house, and have a 'come to jesus' meeting as I call it. just the four of you sit down, no interuptions or anything and talk about everything... the current, like whats going on now, and the future, like are you planning on going to college, her parents are going to want to know that your not just going to forget about her if/when you go to college...then if ya'll do the long distance relationship,there going to want to know if youll have time to come see her or even while your in college are you going to want to make time for her or will you be too busy partying and studying... there prorobly just scared thats all... but just the 4 of yall sit down and talk it out
we have been dating for a year now and I have told her parents that they act like they like me when they see me around and then behind my back tell her not to see me yeah you got the grades right and my parents understand the situation and would be happy to take her in what do I do?
she wont let me she says it will make things worse and no I plan on marrying her and going to a college close to home
Sorry to hear. Not much you can do about that. Not really sure what you're asking, though.
