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My friends grandad is dying right.and I pity him and all.but wheneverhe says something stupid like you dont have a dying grandad and all this .I said to him one day that I dont want to talk about your grandad it nothing got to do with me.the he goes some friend you are.now I've been friend with him all my live and we get on together.what should I say to tell him to stop without hurting his felings
Just let him moan. He's having a hard time of it and needs someone to support him and obviously trusts you enough to talk about how he's feeling. I know it's hard but thats what being a good friendship is about. Being there for each other. There is really no other way of dealing with it, that won't damage things between you.
Good luck :)
you can just simply say that, you understand how hard it must be on him, but it really makes you feel sad to hear him repeat himself all the time. I understand how annoying it may get, but death is never an easy thing to get through with, you being his friend, should understand how he feels, be there for him, and listen to his feelings!
