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My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago... We have been best friends for 2 years, and went out for 10 months... Until his mom told him he couldn't see or talk to me anymore, and so that was it... he ended it. Honestly I think it is pathetic that he would let his mom have that much control over what he wants... but it doesn't really matter because apparently he stopped loving me anyway. Though, two weeks later I found out he lied, and that he still has feelings me but has purposely been being an asshole to me because he didn't want me to think we'd have another chance. He's scared we'll stop talking, and not be best friends like we used to be, and I'm scared of that too. I still love him with all my heart and I really do want to be friends with him still, but now he likes someone else and now being only his friend hurts me more (uhg.. jealousy). And now, I'm finding it really pathetic for myself that I'm practically running away from him! All I see is him and the new girl he's so infatuated by and I HATE IT. It gives me hell. I even deleted my a social site because I was so sick of it. I want to get the hell over him already but nothing is working! I've deleted his phone number, his sn, all of our pictures and videos, everything that can connect me with him but he still somehow manages to come around! And there is no need to get rid of presents, considering he never got me any... But still, I hate how I think of him 24/7... I hate how I can't even hate him or stay mad at him, even when he's being an asshole (which he is, 99.99% of the time)! Could somebody please give me some advice on how else I should try to get over him and move on?! And without the using of another guy as a rebound.. I don't do that... Help!
My heart hurts for you...my boyfriend broke up with me over the phone because he said I lied about something and says he has proof...but wont tell me what it is. so frustrating because I've lied about nothing! I've been acting crazy...calling...texting...just asking him to actually say, "we're done for good." For some reason he WONT say it! every other text he'll reply to except when I ask him to say its over. I know it's over...but he doesn't have the decency to tell me why...or to make it absolutely final. it's so hard to just forget about someone when you're used to seeing and talking to them almost ever day. to be honest...even when I'm trying to stay busy...I'll see a restaurant we went to, or here a song he likes, or see the candy bar he loves! EVERYTHING reminds me of him and I can't even imagine how you feel seeing him with someone else as if you didn't even matter. I'm just trying to stay strong and tell myself that it was his lost...I want someone who will ADORE ME and not listen to outsiders. love yourself...that's what we HAVE to do first. Good luck with everything doll.
Well I am in the same situation you are in to a point. My ex lives in a different country at the moment while he is going to school. The funny thing is that the excuse he makes to not be with me is that he needs space. But how much more space can we get honestly. But all I can say is get rid of all the memories like pictures, try not listening music that makes you even more depressed. My best advice is to go out and meet new people it may be hard but even if you make new friends it will show you that you don't need him to be happy.
Omg, I feel the same way.. Im trying to get over my ex that I love so much At the same time I want to hate! Cause he's hurt me so much and it's ridiculous how much I think of him.. Even though he hurt me emotionaly a lot! I don't have an answer for you, but if it makes you feel better I'm in the same Situation.. And ugh always be Constantly doing something! This will keep your mind off him, don't stay Alone and try socializing a lot, it's way harder when your on your own trust me! Good luck, <3
ik how you feel. All I can tell you is to go out and make a new guy friend. a guy you can talk 2. dont date him just to make the other guy jelous, just be friends. Or even just make a new friend thts in the same sorta situation, and just talk about it til you cry. and remember wht he did 2 u. thts what got me over my ex. Also, dont't let his friends harass you. Hope this helps.Good luck with everything. ~Sierra~
and you still want the mom's child?
