My ex best guyfriend won't be happy for me!

Because when you really like someone its hard to watch them go off with someone else - its even harder when their relationship actually lasts. He is obviously still upset you are with someone and your happy, because he is the one that he wanted you to be happy with. I know saying those things doesn’t make the situation any better but he most likely said it out of anger. I can see why he doesn’t want to hang out with you, its because its so hard to hang out with someone you have strong feelings for knowing you cant have them. Put yourself in his shoes and walk a mile, you’d see why hes acting this way. Its not your fault that you are happy with someone else but your not seeing his behavior the way you should. Hes not doing it to be mean or to piss you off, its just his way of showing how much he wanted you. You say it hurts you but I guarantee hes feeling triple the pain you are right now, he wanted to be that one clean guy, he wanted to be him but someone beat him to it. I suggest you just back away from him for a little while and tell him when he feels better about the situation to come talk to you. Its a lot to handle and take in even though its been over a year. He needs his time away from you and his space so at least give that to him and understand his feelings.

he’s jealous…and he’s “in love with u” trust me I’m like in love with my best friend but of course someone always get to be with my best friend in a relationship but not me its quite not fair b/c I know my best friend better and I been aroud longer though yeah I’m acting immature and pissed off with my best friend as well b/c of of that (I have the same problem as him) I can tell you it really hurts…god you dont really know how much it hurts.. though I got to the point of not caring anymore too much pain so I let go of it and I guess im happy now I still have my best friend but we dont talk much its just hard (1 year without saying how I feel it has me numb now) but yeah I can tell he likes you thats why :)