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My dad is always mad at me. He gets mad so eaisly and I almost always never know what I did wrong. Not only does he get mad, but he makes me mad. It's like, he'll do something and I'll do the exact same this that he just did and he starts screaming at me. like it's ok when he does it but it's the end of the world when I do it. I'm not sure what to do. I just want to get out of this house as soon as possible. I've asked if I can go to boarding school, but he says no because he would miss me too much...but he sure doesn't show it. I'm stuck...HELP ME PLEASE
If you just try to sit down and be civil that might help. If not, the silent treatment sounds like a good idea. Your father might just be having problems right now and he doesn't know how to handle them so, that's probably why he's taking them all out on you. If you convince him that you want to go to boarding school by telling him that "I need to get an education, and that I need to get somewhere in life" But, that might not work since he claims that he'll miss you too much. Well, that doesn't sound like it. Your father is abusing you verbally and is taking his problems out on you. So, you can do the silent treatment, avoid him altogether, ask someone else outside the house such as another relative if you could attend boarding school, or, talk to him civilly. Good luck, and hope you take our advice.
OMG my dad just got in this hugggee fight with me and hes so annoying how do you expect to get along with someone so stubborn...seriously I cant get a word in and only his opinion counts..I didnt evenn do anything and you cant sit down and have a convo with him because he wont listen but if I ignore him I get more time added on to my grounding..groundings dont work I don't know why parents think they do tey just make your kids more angry and more eager to be mad soo I don't know what to tell you im in the same exact problem as you...its so annoying! :(
Uhh, Yeah Wow, YOUR DAD IS EXACTLYYY LIKE MINE!
Like I Know How You Feel. ASDFJKL!
But If Your Dads Anything Like Mine, Than "Standing Up To Him" Wont Work.
Maybe The Silent Treatment Might, Aha, Im Going To Try That Next.
Goodluck.
ignore him and avoid him, dont do anything with him just brush him off and he'll prob thinnk he did somthing wrong. thats just what I'd do. but I dont like my dad. I don't know about you.
The only problem is that if I ignore him, he gets mad at me too. So it's like...stand up to him and get yelled at...or...ignore him and get yelled at.
talk with him peacefully. I belive "there's no fight in a good talk"
Try sitting down and talking with him!
just pray to god and he will help you!
