My boyfriends in jail.

Okay, so I’ve been seeing this boy for about 5 months.. then he asked me out, we are now dating for about 4 months so all together about .. 9 months of being together.. but now hes in jail. and his ex girlfriend keeps teeling everyone that he still loves her, and is just using me for a phone call. But the thing I dont understand is that he dumped her, becuase he lost intrest in her. But agrred with her that they could remain friends. She always would ty to get him to go over to her house but he would never go, all they really did is talk, and thats only when she wouuld message him about 10 times saying hello, are you there.. HELLLO!! Im just so scared to lose himm, he means everything to me. and I told him whats going on down here, with that drama.. and he garunetys me that he has no feelings left for her. im just scared can someone please help me ?!?!

Answer #1

He is in jail because at my old job a co-worker was trying to sexualy assult me and my boyfriend wenr crazy my boyfriends 16 and this guy was 21.. but the cops lawer judge noone would belive my boyfriend of why he did it, all because he got in fites one to many times before. hes in there for 9 months.

Answer #2

Purelife, sweetie, he are you sure that he someone you want to be with. You admit that he’s a violent guy (‘ …he got in fites one to many times before… ‘ means that he is in fights all the time AND his solution was to try and fight the older guy instead of getting the police).

This might be the time to back away from what promises to be a bad relationship, and let the crazy ex get him back.

Sigh You probably will ignore this, and if so, MAYBE he is the one guy that will be different, and can learn to control his anger. I hope so. Good Luck!!

Answer #3

Thanks Bimjob, your answer did help a lot. I would never ignore someones answer, unless they were comppleatly and uttrerly rude. & I hope he hes that one in a million that can change, and if hes not. then I guess ill have to move on and find someone else. but I do love him. and im going to try and support him, and help him in changinng from his bad ways back to his good. hes started attending anger managent on his own, witch I do find a good thing. but never no right! but thank you once agian :)

Answer #4

k say fck her try everything you can to keep him and keep her off your mind and him on your mind!!! member FCK HER

Answer #5

why is he in jail?…

maybe you should be angry at him and tell him he needs to get his act together before he begins dating you again…? just a suggestion maybe you should leave him for a while…its not good to date someone with so much baggage, especially a psycho ex girlfriend

Answer #6

I think that the ex girlfriend is trying to make yall break up. She probably thinks that if yall break up then she has a chance with him. Believe in your man UNLESS he gives you a reason not too!!

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