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My boyfriend wants me to have a baby

Basically I’ve been with him for 9 months and were in love. My parents dont like him because he drinks and smokes pot and his 22. We planned to move into our own flat but he doesnt have a job and we cant afford it. He says I should have a baby and lie to social welfare that my parents thrown me out because I was pregnant and maybe they will give us a council flat and sign on the dole. I love my fella so much and id love a baby but I dont feel ready I want to go to college. What should I do???

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Answer #1

dude… If he can’t even work enough to provide for just you and him there’s no way he can afford the addition of a baby… He needs to get his priorities straight girl. and if you want to goto college, it’ll be a heck of a lot harder if you add a baby to the mix. Tell him if he wants a baby, he needs to get up off his a$$, get a job, and a house… maybe stop drinkin too… I would say stop smokin but I smoke so I can’t, I used to drink but I quit. Look if he can’t even get a place to live, seriously, not trying to be mean, but it’s not going to work with a baby.. esp if he’s 22, he should be doing something for your wellbeing… Tell him if he wants a baby he needs to seriously step up, or the answer, stern and strick, is for sure going to be no… also finish college first, just a suggestion.. you’re parents don’t dislike him for no reason, though many times parents are old fashioned or just plain wrong, they care about whats best for you… hopefully lol… good luck making your desicion…

Answer #2

Neither of you seem grown up enough to have children. You’re obviously smart, use your head. Babies are for life. Not just to scam a bit of cash, and a flat. Think things through properly and I’m sure you’ll do the right thing for you.

Answer #3

do not have a baby you obiously cant afford one

Answer #4

do not have a baby. I know you love him, but seriously.. he cant support himself, you- and deff not a baby. it wouldnt be fair to bring a baby into that, now would it? what if your dad drank, and smoked pot.. probably wouldnt be that great of a dad. ( I would know- mines not ) 9 monthes seems like a long time to be dating someone, but your young, he’s young. you may not be together forever. your on here, questioning it yourself. I think you know your not ready.

Answer #5

do not have a baby you obiously cant afford one

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