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Should I break up with my pothead boyfriend? He smokes pot all of the time and he is always high. He claims he really likes me but what if it is just the weed talking? I really need help because I am really starting to like him a lot.
I'm dating a great guy but every time I get a chance to see him he ends up high with his buddies by the end of the night every single time. I was aware of his occasional smoking in the beginning but I didn't realize that I would be there to witness it every time I was with him.Comments like "I'm really not a pothead" or "It was a stressful day" aren't good enough excuses for me anymore to tolerate it. Now it's taking a big toll on us because it's obvious I'm not into him if he's into pot constantly. After reading advice on here though I think it's a good idea to break it off. I can't count on him to ever shake the habit and grow up, and I can't keep going against my values and pretending I'm okay with the situation because at the end of the day I'm still disappointed in him and in myself for putting up with it.
I agree with jenjen. His weed nonsense can get you arrested. If he's stopped by the cops while driving or just walking by and you are with him and the cops find him with possession of marijuana then they can take you both in. They may eventually let you go if you're found innocent, but that still means a couple of hours in the station for being with the wrong person practically all the time. Tell him your concerns and that his "smoking pot" behavior needs to end when your with him. If it really bothers you, then be firm about it.
My boyfriend has been smoking it for years now... Latley pot comes before food and bills around the house hold. Me and the kids go without for his habit and in seriouly thinking of leaving... In the end it comes to be too expensive and causes problems in the relationship
well just talk to him maybe he will stop, or atleast slow down on it. I like this guy that smokes pot, and I was wondering if I should date him or not, and I think that after hearing this ill pass on this one,,
no way weed is good for ur soul wen ur high ur true feelings com out 1s u cant express wen ur sober so wen he says he loves u he meens it
hows about you respect him for who he is and see where things go im sure hes a nice guy
dont break up with him...im into weed and its hard to quit just help him out
maybe this seemis corny but say ether the weed or me
tel him to stop, if he realli loved you he would
