My bestfriend got a girlfriend

I have this best friend thats a guy and I don’t like him I just don’t like it when he goes out with girls.. I don’t know it just makes me feel like whenever hes single im hes number one girl but when he finds a girlfriend I just feel forgotten about.. I don’t know a lot of people have been telling me that friends come and go and if hes going to keep avoiding me everytime he gets a girlfriend then I should just do the same or confront him.. any advice on what I should do ??

Answer #1

Well usually whenever a guy has a girl best friend and he gets a new girlfriend, they want you out of the picture because they think of you as a threat so he is kind of forced to push you away a little bit. I wouldn’t really be mad at him because of course he is going to have to make time for the new girl and push you away a little bit might be necessary. Don’t take it personally because he will always be friends with you as long as you stand next to him in a bind.

Answer #2

That is something you will have to deal with when you’re “just friends” with a guy. You need to get used to it, because it’ll still be happening when you’re 20, I promise. If you don’t like him, the it really shouldn’t bother you. Either learn to live with it, or just find a new friend. His girl is probably jealous because you’re cuter anyway (that’s usually how it goes!) Well, Good luck and funmail me!

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