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Am I being a bad friend for talking to my best friend's crush?

Well I have a close friend, and she is in ‘love’ with this boy. I highly doubt it, because they’re not going out, they NEVER talk, the boy she ‘loves’ can’t stand her! lol.

okay but.. the thing is.. the boy she’s falling in love with.. likes me. && I feel super bad. I DON’T LIKE THIS BOY LIKE THAT. I mean.. he’s a cool friend, I could hang out with him, but we’re just friends! She has only really cared for two boys before.. so I feel like I just killed it for her.

now I feel like I’m a horrible friend because her boy likes me. I know it’s not my fault.. but still..

do you think I’m being a bad friend, because I still talk to this boy because he’s in my class and I sit by him in majority classes.. what should I do?

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Answer #1

well you shouldnt really be feeling guilty because you cant control his feelings. but maybe you could back off a little just to give him a signal that you dont really want to go out or hook up with him,or whatever you want to call that lol. but hope I helpeddd. (:

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Answer #2

Tell your friend the sad truth: the boy does not like her, he is only your friend, and you do not like the boy “that way”, only as a friend.

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