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How to handle not fitting in at my new school?

I just moved to a new state. It is the exact opposite of what I’m used to. The people in middle school to high school have already had sx. Well not all of them but some of them. They dance kind of dirty and they have gross holiday’s at school like “Grab Butt Day”, “Grab Boob Day” and stuff like that.The girls here are so thin and pretty grr I’m so jealous. And a lot of people here have already had sx so of course they’ve made out before. Well I haven’t. So I feel so wierd. I know there is no way I am going to move back to where I used to live so what should I do?

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Answer #1

You don’t have to go along with the crowd, especially when the crowd is wrong. IMO, Middle school is not the place to start having s e x. Follow your conscience and not the crowd. Listen to your parents and live by the morals and values they have taught you. When I was in the 9th grade I couldn’t believe how little my parents knew but when I was in college I was astonished how much they had learned in just four or five years.

Answer #2

i agree it is way to yooung besides u can get aids(i don’t know about u but that is one thing i dont woan get)even if u have safe s*x. Plus it could ruin ur live it really could. Don’t do things cause evryone else does. THey might be cool now but some of them in a few years or so might regret it even if u cant tell

Answer #3

i wouldnt worry about it becuz right now im going through the same thing im moved over the summer to an exact opposite of wehat im used to…but i guess i have to get used to it and so do u…a lil saying “if they want to waste all their time on u then let them its there life their wasting”

Answer #4

my advice would be find the kinds that havnt and the ones u frrl comfertable around and make friends with them dont follow the crowds it just gets u into trouble and so on and so on…

Answer #5

i agree you don’t have to do it. If you are’nt ready do not do what everyone else is do what is right for you.

Answer #6

gurl no need to be jealous.. if ur in middle skool u still mad young.. they jus might be maturing faster in body than you.

grabbing butt day? lmao wtf? new york dont even haf dat uh i dink ur da only normal one dere so play it safe iight? Listen..you dont need s to get you anywhere..at your age guys haf s jus for pleasure than end up jus leaving for another girl to bang .. the gurl ends up with the emotion distress at the end. trust me your gonna regret it..jus stay urself n pple will eventually noe u for bein different.

head up^ dont lose who you are.

Answer #7

Well i kind of kno how yooh feel. But instead i jus moved to a different school but stayed on da same island. I kno lots of people who had s*x and madeout. i didnt do any of that. So then dont do anything yooh dont wanna do

I hoped i helped yooh

Answer #8

START TURNING THEM IN TO THE PRINCIPAL , IT IS RIDICULOUS

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