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She can't unless she persuades your grandparents to do so. If I were you I would go to the local council in your area or a service for advising young people (I am not sure what one in America would be, in England we have a group called Connexions that offers advice to people under 21) and ask about what would happen next if they did kick you out. You may be able to be put into some form of sheltered housing if you have nowhere else to go. Do you have any other family or friends you could stay with?
If I were you I would try and get a job if you do not have one already and save up to try and get a houseshare with some other people of a similiar age, or else to pay rent towards staying with a friend or family member. I would also try and talk to your mother in a serious way. My dad was like this with me about my ex and I do understand your pain, although it was no quite so serious fortunately. Write your mom a letter or try and sit her down and explain that you love this man and you hope she can accept that you are happy, because she should want that for you in life. Tell her it has no affect on how you think of her and it is not like you would rush into anything silly, you just wish you had her support because it is what you want. I think maybe she is scared that you will move away so she is half pushing you and half issuing threats so she gets her way and you split with him. If you try and talk to her like an adult, hopefully she can see your viewpoint and you can repair your relationship.
ok, one, I'm 19, two, I'm a girl, and three, I haven't actually done anything to be kicked out, I don't do narcotics, I don't drink, I don't have anything bad on my record or anything like that, my mom simply doesn't like the man I've been dating for the last 16 months. (She's met him and everything, liked him before, this hating of him is all pretty sudden because she thinks he isn't right for me, but I don't think that really concerns her at all) He doesn't live here, she's just really upset that I actually stood up to her for once. She had sent him emails telling him to break up with me, and called him horrible names, and then told him I was being kicked out because of him. I know this all sounds pretty drastic, but if you all knew my mom, you'd understand. Anyways, thanks for the feedback, I'm really hoping you guys are right because I literally have no where to go.
Several things factor in here. Does your mother rent the house? If so, then it doesn't matter that your grandparents own it. She has the same rights as if a stranger owned it. A stranger cannot make you have someone live in the house you rent from them. It however sounds like you have a whole bunch of family all in one house. If your grandparents live there also then she loses a lot of her legal rights to evict you. As long as it is a single residence and not split into apartments.
Well no, I guess since is your grandperents house, but your grandperents can. Also they can't do it if your under the age of constant. Also watch your action, don't do stuff that makes them want to kick you out, and if you are 18 or 16 (depending on where you live) they dont HAVE to take care of you.
If the house doesnt actually belong to her then I dont think she would have any right to kick you out. Unless she is leasing the house from your grandparents, in which case she can.
Nope its not ur mothers right and who would kick their son out of somebody elses house!?! Thats like going next door and yelling GET OUT
yeah, they are. I live here with them, my aunt, my cousin, 3 brothers, my sister, my mom's ex boyfriend, and my mom.
My mother doesn't pay rent, and nor does anyone else really, my grandma owns the house completely.
he lives in england, it's a long distance relationship, I need to save up money to see him again.
Wheather ur 18 or not ur mother can't kick u out of ur grandparents house, its thr house not hers
Stay with him into can gt ur own place
Are they still alive???
