how can the mother that gave birth to u hate u soo much that she hits u n the face and tells u to get the fuck out of her house?

that is just sad!

wow. ummm. i am going to start off first by saying im sorry. if you are going through thing like this. you know… sometimes parents are just so…wrong. talk to your mom. see what is going on. is there a reason why she did this to you? try to find out what is going on…if you don’t already know.

Im sorry that your going through.Here we have youth helplines.2ndfloor is a good one that i was referred to.Hit up their website.It’s free advice.And you don’t have to give out any information about yourself.You can even do *67 to block your number.They will only trace the call if they feel you are in danger or if your suicidal.But i think it is a good idea.Or maybe you could reach out to an older sibling,close friends,or people in your family that are willing to be there for you.Things can seem so tough at times but if you reach out for help im sure something can be done.Try talking to your school counselor maybe as well to see if you and your mom can get into some kind of counseling.Good Luck Sweetie.

There is probably a bunch of stress and tension going on I dont think theres anyway to explain it because anyway you try its always going to come down to that being the wrong choice. If this is happening to you, you need to talk to some one and get help thats NOT how you want to live. Best wishes.

Thats not normal coming from a mother. Not know the circumstances there could be plenty of explainations, doesn’t mean it’s right for her to do so. Try this, helping her more often, listening and not say anything smart or show any resentment, Just knod and say ok. Pull the best out of you and say Mom I Love You. Like you said thats the mom that gave birth to you. Do what she says without an arguement and things will get better.

Thats not normal coming from a mother. Not know the circumstances there could be plenty of explainations, doesn’t mean it’s right for her to do so. Try this, helping her more often, listening and not say anything smart or show any resentment, Just knod and say ok. Pull the best out of you and say Mom I Love You. Like you said thats the mom that gave birth to you. Do what she says without an arguement and things will get better.

Thats something that should be taken to the cops…. or social services immediately

How do you know it’s an argument? It could be case of domestic abuse.. or if the mother is on drugs/an alcholic etc. then that can ‘cause problems. Don’t be so quick to point the blame at the asker. I’m sure that she tries to appreciate her mother, and what she does for her, and tries to show her mother that she loves her. Who doesn’t? Certainly not people that ask questions like these. :/

if this did rlly happen to you, then you might want to go to the police with it…..that behavior is not normal. try sitting her down and see if something is bugging her and causing her to act luke this….hoped this helped….=)

if this did rlly happen to you, then you might want to go to the police with it…..that behavior is not normal. try sitting her down and see if something is bugging her and causing her to act luke this….hoped this helped….=)

like…not luke…sorrry! lol

like…not luke…sorrry! lol

thankx emily i do appreciate u saying that but i guess i can try harder to make her happy… idk.. i’ll figure it out when i can.. but thanks to all of yall who gave me advice :)

thankx emily i do appreciate u saying that but i guess i can try harder to make her happy… idk.. i’ll figure it out when i can.. but thanks to all of yall who gave me advice :)

thankx emily i do appreciate u saying that but i guess i can try harder to make her happy… idk.. i’ll figure it out when i can.. but thanks to all of yall who gave me advice :)

thank you for the advice, i needed it alot

thank you for the advice, i needed it alot

i love my mom and even tho she did that i couldnt do that.. i can work through this..

thankx for the input but i dont want to involve the cops… things are better tho

thankx for the input but i dont want to involve the cops… things are better tho

thankx for the advice

thanks.. things are alil better now

i’ll try to.. thankx for the advice

i’ll try to.. thankx for the advice

Their is NO excuse for a parent to put their hand on their child in any way that is abusive. That’s what you have a butt for and they make belts everyday, although I don’t ever woop my son their are other ways to disaplin him. The fact that your mother done that to you even if it only happened just once she needs serious mental help. You do not abuse your child, that is the worst thing a parent can do to their child and it’s something you will never forget it will stick with you for the rest of your life. My mother was just like yours but when I stood up for myself just one time and hit her back she never put her hands on me again, life was still hard and to this day I still don’t forgive my mom for the things she done to me but I can say the only thing she taught me was how do be a good parent, all I have to do is everything she didn’t do and nothing she did do. Life will get better just don’t let her run over you even though she is your mother their are boundries she shouldn’t pass. And since she can’t be a mother to you and tell you shes sorry I’m going to do it for her. From a mother who thinks children are perfect sweet loving angels, I am sorry!!!

well, if she gets too bad you might need to….and your welcome! XD

well, there isnt any advice that i can give that already hasnt been said on here. if things dont get better, and you’ve tried everything that has been mentioned here, its time to call the authorities. just know the difference between discipline and abuse when you make the decision. being part mexican (tho i dont look it), i know the difference. haha mexican moms are scary when pissed. my grandma made my dad kneel in salt (which is REALLY painful after awhile), wash your mouth out with soap, and would give him a spanking with the nearest object if he misbehaved (depending on the severity of disobedience). i know this cuz she used to do it to me if i misbehaved at her house. i wouldnt say she is abusive tho. my mom’s mom though, WAS abusive. she had, and still has, no patience. my mom told me that she once broke a plate (or vinyl record…forget which) over her head once. my dad turned out fine and my mom just did everything her mom didnt do and also turned out fine. im 16 but honestly, i think physical discipline is more effective. when i misbehave, sending me to my room isnt really a punishment. i have a tv and xbox in there.

in your case, i suspect abuse. so, like i said, if things dont get better its time to notify the authorities. no mother should PUNCH their child. anywhere. i hope this helped and wish you luck. =)

thank you for that… as i was ready it, it made me tear up a bit but i did need to hear that i hope i can find the courage to just say enough with it all and stand up for myself but for rite now, everything is okay and its better. i hope me and my mom can work through this, i only have a yr and a half left of skool and then im leaving and i dont want to leave with her still hating me

it did help and thank u :)

Wow… I just posted this site somewhere else. Dysfunctional is the word you are looking for here. That is the only way a mother does that… and drugs/alcohol abuse which takes us back to dysfunctional.

GET HELP…

You Should Know No one has the right to abuse you. You don’t deserve to be abused. If you are being abused, you are a victim. It’s not your fault that you are being treated this way. It is wrong that you are suffering this pain, fear or sadness. You are not alone. Other kids suffer abuse, too. Sometimes abusers scare or threaten kids so they won’t tell. There are people who care about you and want to help you. If you are being abused, please tell a safe person - that’s someone you can trust like a teacher, counselor, school nurse, neighbor or parent. You can also talk to a Childhelp USA hotline counselor. CALL 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) then push 1 to talk to a hotline counselor. The Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline is open 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. The hotline counselors work with translators who speak 140 languages to help people who call and speak something other than English. All calls are anonymous. (The hotline counselors don’t know who you are and you don’t have to tell them.)

Get help, honey. This is not normal and you deserve better.