what do i do if my mom treats me like a maid and my older brother and younger sister special?

First: Realize that you are as special as your brother or sister. I went through this and believe it or not it made me a better person. Study hard in school and be sure to prepare yourself for college - then you will never have to rely on anyone else. Read everything you can get your hands on. Search the web for ways to address these issues. Pray for your family.

Middle child syndrome. You have seen the Brady bunch? When you say ‘always’, I have serious doubts. But alright, here’s what you can do. For a month, track down all the chores you do, and all the chores your siblings do. Track down times you go out while your brother has to do stuff (remember to track these as well), and times you have to stay home. If it is ridiculously obvious that you are being jiffed, go show your mother. Honestly, Im going to bet you realize that you are not being treated as unfairly as you think you are. As for your mother telling you that you make her life bad, you’re right, that’s not ok. But if she’s telling you this, I honestly doubt she isnt saying it to her other kids. Try and hear what she says to your siblings as well. Here’s the thing. There’s two realities that are possible. Either you are simply more aware of the times when you feel as if you have been jiffed (which is what I’m going with), in which case you really just need to realize that you arent the only one who has to make sacrifices. Or your mother truly is picking on you. In this case, you can try talking to her. Dont whine or complain about wanting to do something. Show her actual proof that your brother gets a lot more free time than you do. It may or may not work. If she doesnt care, then you’re going to have to deal with it till you’re an adult. Which is only a few years away. And then you can leave and never have to deal with her again.

confront her & tell her what you feel so she could understand you. if your a bad person bad comes along but if your not you might be adopted or someone elses child. don’t keep your feelings inside because it will be worser!

Please work on your grammer. Not a cut at you but you want to be employed when you go for a job. You will need proper english skills…