Mixed Signals ?? :S

Okay, the guy I’ve mentioned in other questions, has done something to confuse my friends and I. It’s nothing too big, but.. yeah. In their last period class, my friend was working on a project with her partner, and they were sitting near my “crush” and his partner. My friend’s partner brought up what I had written in her yearbook last year. My “crush” had been talking quite animatedly beforehand, but as soon as I was mentioned, he went quiet. And when my friend’s partner said we didn’t like each other much, or something like that, my “crush’s” partner asked if it was because I was fat.. I think? I just know he insuilted me on my weight. I know it’s true, and I’m used to this kind of thing. Anyway, I digress… When he said that, my friend was ready to kick his a**. My “crush” on the other hand, who is said to ‘hate’ me, moved further away from his partner, and remained quiet… ? Which really confuses me. If he hated me so much, wouldn’t he have contributed to the insults? :S The friend that was there thinks that he moved away from his partner because he didn’t like that he’d insulted me? That he does like me… ? Any advice?

Answer #1

But sometimes your subconscience tries to tell you things through your dreams… Be it how much you care about something, or how afraid you are of another thing… Don’t squash me :P lmao

Answer #2

lol, no offence, but how is this relevent? I mean, a dream is a dream, there is nothing real bout it…

Answer #3

Breanne said, and I quote, “ ok on one of the comments that debin said like bout my aggresion that he was scared…I was carful not to let my aggresion show it was the end of the period and I wanted to see what fd was gonna do so I didn’t say to much or say I was going to kick his a** to his face “

Answer #4

Okay!! Guess what all? I had a dream about “him” =P I never have dreams about people.. if I do, then I only have one dream, and nothing “couply” ever happens…

I don’t really remember what happened, I think Breanne was in it.. and the three of us were hanging, and then she went to do something, and him and me were jsut sitting side by side, quite close, really quietly… and I moved away.. and then he grabbed my hand and pulled me back beside him.. ? and we just sat there, I rested my head on his shoulder, and we were hand in hand ..

Answer #5

lol, okay…

Answer #6

thats perfect, like it dosnt have to be akward, just make conversation with a few hints droped now and then

Answer #7

I can’t get him alone though? And that might be a bit awkward, even if I CAN. The only way I might be able to, is if I take his bus, which, incidentally, so does a friend. I could go to her house, and talk to him as he’s walking from the bus stop to his house?? I don’t know :|

Answer #8

“But today, he openly stared at me? << I think that’s right :S “ -he was openly staring at me.

well like I’ve said befor, the only way to get any solid proof is to corner him 1-o-1 and talk to his. just drop hints to your liking him, and gage his response.

Answer #9

some one called you fat? who? ill bash in his face when I go to see you at valentines day! bout this guy, id say forget him. this sounds like this guy was intimidated by your friends aggression, and didnt want to get involved to avoid being hurt. however it might be that he dose like you… its hard to say…

Answer #10

:) I’d only get mad at the insult, if it was something like, “Because she’s slept with a million guys?” or something like that. Because that would be a false accusation. Now, “Because she’s fat?” is another question. He spoke the truth, so I will not hurt him :P Breanne did not voice how ready she was to beat him, so I don’t think that’s why he remained quiet… Any comments on my “advice” on my own question.. Right before your post?

Answer #11

Well, clearly a normal person who “didn’t like someone” would continue with the insults. That is common sense. But about his quietness, I think he could maybe like you. If his friends have a problem with you he might be afraid to mention you.

Answer #12

They might have a problem with me… And I think one of them likes me… :O But I don’t like him. Now I’m deff. not sure about that, so don’t take it into too much consideration… ?

I forgot to mention something in my question. In my other questions, I’ve mentioned that I’ve seen / caught him looking at me, and if I notice, he usually turns around… But today, he openly stared at me? << I think that’s right :S I turned my head that way a couple of times, and looked at him, thinking he’d look away, but he didn’t. So I just stared right back. After a moment, he turned away… It was.. confusing to me, also… ?

Answer #13

lol, I was just saying… and if this is you sub-concious trying to tell you sum thing, then it doing a pritty sh*ty job, because you already know this…

Answer #14

Not necessarily…

Answer #15

Ahhh kay. I was on Facebooky.. AND I spoketh to him through message thingers. I asked him, again, why he hated me ( I couldn’t use the “stalker” approach, for I was nay allowed on the bus. F’king vice principle ) And he said “why you ask” and I’m all “ I don’t know, just answer “ he said… ? ermm.. Right! He said, “ well, I never actually said I hated you.. “ and I’m all, wait, but this kid told me you told him that you did… And I have nay recieved a response, and I probs won’t. Thought I’d share this with y’all because it is 1 AM here in Canada, and Devin, the butt, is completely ignoring me and crushing my itty bitty heart :)

Answer #16

deperatlynervous.. this is what I was gonna write on your profile :P

I mean, he said he never said he hated me, so it mighta just been his friend >yeah, I spoke to him on fcbk< but Idontknow… he still tries avoiding me, me thinks. in religion.. we had to ask everyone in our class a question on a paper for an ice breaker thing (stupid:P) and he tried saving where I was for last.. which was hard ‘cause my seat is in the center of the room, and I hadn’t gotten up.. and everyone kinda went to the center… but people were wandering, and asking him and him asking them and everything. Right before the teacher told us to stop.. he’d taken his time walking over. He was very hesitant, almost hoping he woulldn’t have time. I completely ignored him as he came up and everythin (yeah, I’m cool 8-) [eyeroll]) AND.. I don’t know. I think he was about to ask somone around there a question, but then Mr. T had to call us to attention. Grrr. ! I’m confused. I told Breanne that I don’t like him anymore, but she doesn’t seem to get it. She kinda does, but she doesn’t. And NONE of my friends get the whole I don’t know if I like him as a friend or more thing. I told them straight out I wasn’t sure, and I might just want his friendship, but they all went OMG you like him! Blah, I hate my life D: D:

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