What if my crush likes my friend?

ok I have I major crush on a guy but everyone knows he like one of mt best friends.so at can I do right the thing is that theyr frinds and he puts his arm around her what can I do hellllllllllllllllllppppppp!!!!(it gets me upset)

Answer #1

Just to prevent misunderstandings and confusion, let me take what she wrote and clean it up:

“Ok, I have a major crush on a guy, but everyone knows that he likes one of my best friends. So what can I do? Right, the thing is that they are friends and he puts his arm around her. What can I do? Help! This really gets me upset.”

Answer #2

LOL, thanks, Sailorman. But I actually think I’ am starting to understand what they are saying without a translator. Which is scary.

He is not into you, he is into your best friend. End of story, right? If your friend isn’t into him back, you can ask her if it’s cool if you pursue him. Then if she says yes, then one day, maybe go up to him and say, “When are you going to start barking up the wrong tree and go out with me?”

See if he goes for it. But if your friend likes him back, then there is nothing that you can do. It’s okay to feel bad and unfomfortable sometimes. You’ll muddle through it. You’ll be fine. You’ll get over it.

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