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I am on this serious commited relationship and this man is so grumpy 24/7... How can I help him to make himself happy so I can live in peace. He wakes in a bad mood and he goes to bed in a bad mood. Every other word is the "f" word. I grew up with bikers, farmers, and contractors. If anyone know these kind of people ya'll know the there langue isnt the best. But this man...o m g... His whole family, mother, lil sister. There all like that. I myself can stand it. I think it is an ugly word and shouldnt be used in every day conversations. Am I wrong. After a while it just plain ugly. This along with his grumpyness is driving me bilistic...!!!
The only way you're going to get any peace is to get away from him - there's not a thing you can do to change him...people like that are quite comfortable in their misery.
This is not a healthy relationship.
people can say f*** occasionally, but it gets annoying if they say it all the time. talk to him about it. ask him why he's so grumpy.