Marriage: is it very compulsory?

Yadav, I don’t know how to get away from that situation. I have had many Indian friends having this issue and there is no real solution. A friend of mine from college said he couldn’t go back to India because his family had disowned him and they would kill him. Yes kill him he said. My friend came to the United States to get away from it. It all has to do with how open your parents are to your feelings. Good luck to you. Trying to talk to them is possibly your only way to deal with this. As for “amblessed” she means well but your parents may or may not be Christians since you are in India. I would hope maybe they are and be able to quote the verse above. Good Luck anyway.

“I will be happy to have an arranged marriage when I have become more mature, worldly and responsible, I will not be happy if you try to force me to marry before this time” or “I am sorry to break with a tradition, that means a lot to you, but I feel very strongly that want to choose my own wife. Maybe I can bring her home so you can meet her , as I would value your opinions and advice before finally deciding whom to marry’ or “I am happy to have an aranged marriage, but would like some choice in the matter. You can find me a woman , I will get to know her a little before agreeing to marry her’

Hello,

 According to me you talk to your parents and convice him.U can tell your parents when i fully established then after i will do marriage.I think it is a googd reason.

.1 Yes marriage as an instution is compulsory … I am sure you would not have your children running being called bastards .

2. Marriage brings about healthy attitude towardslife and everyday living like sharing caring and is the best bet for lonelines…no dog or pet can give you happiness .

3. Because there is always frinction in all marriages it is better to be married earlier in life as it givess focus and directions to life and also it is very good for the start of good understanding in life with your partner , who if young is much receptible to your likes / dilsikes and whimss and fancies and you lvice versa .

4. Married people have healthier attitude towards life .

Just say no!