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My uncle is in jail for trying to rape his own daughter… Hes the husband of my aunt(mom’s sister) but the husband is the worst of the worst… He’s bipolar, he thinks men are greater then women,he hits my aunt,he made my aunt hate her own family! He tried to rape one of my younger aunt’s and thats why my aunt seperated her daughters and son + herself from the family…the man tried to rape my cousins too and told me millions of times I was getting really hot… The guy is like 45 im 14! Ughh :p I mean thats sick! But he seems to have some spell over my aunt because even after he tried to rape his own daughter… She still visits him in jail and tells him she loves him! My cousins are in danger because he will be 2 years in jail only! Im sooo worried! im extremely scared not only for my cousins but for my aunt as well… When he wasnt in jail she was the one who worked everyday from early in the morning to lateee at night and he was still waiting for food to be ready and the house to be cleaned! Hes an alcholic and possibly drug addict! Im worried ! Any advice pleaseee? =’(

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Answer #1

stay away from the shitfaced punk

Answer #2

first off I am sorry that you have to go through this at all and especially at your age, and also sorry about your cousins… im not saved but I know when to take it to God and let him handle it, and this is one of those times…there isnt really a solution to this problem, your aunt has to be ready to leave him before the problem begins to get solved,we have all heard the saying..love makes you do crazy things..and this is a true statement..even tho she has separated from the family, your mom or any other family member can take it to court, and try to get custody of them when he gets out of jail, and the judge will rule in yalls favor because the children are in danger,and if you dont take it to court your aunt could go to jail for allowing him to do that and not saying anything about it… …I hope this will help in any way and I will keep both you and your family in my prayers and hope that everything works out with your family

Answer #3

OMG What a DIRTBAG!!! You and your family need to stay away from him. Your aunt needs HELP!!! What do your parents say??? If that was my nieces and nephew I would contact social services and have those children live with me. Your parents would be protecting them. There mom is obviously brainwashed and she is not protecting her children,,, This is very serious!!! Talk with your parents!!!

Answer #4

Right now he’s in jail, so be thankful that he’s incarcerated. Now that he’s there the entire family needs to attempt to spend some quality time with her and the children. Just maybe she’ll realize that she doesn’t need him in her life. With any luck she’ll learn to live without him. I know it’s crazy but I’m sure your aunt feels like she needs him. If that don’t work maybe someone can call the local child protective services for your cousins, because I’m sure that c.p.s will do an investigation. With any luck something will work…

Answer #5

tell your aunt how you feel, tell her how the whole entire family feels. do everything you can to help her and your cousins.

Answer #6

My parents already know… but my couins are : 20,17, & 13 recently… I couldnt belive it when I heard it on the news… they are from mexico so yea :/ I cant belive that pig did that to them! =[

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