should i let ma boyfriend drink but not everyday just like in when we chill but when he drinks he gets wasted?

Answer #1

Can you really stop him? I mean do you regulate his drinking? I would complain if my boyfriend got drunk everytime we went out and had a few drinks. It’s not cool and it wouldn’t make me feel safe. It’s your choice. I personally think that there is a time and place for everything and getting drunk at a friends party is ok, but not in a club, because you might not get home alive.

Answer #2

but when we chill with his friendsi is at his house should i still let him drink?

Answer #3

Why not? Unless it really bothers you. But he might get annoyed and angry with you if you try to tell him what to do. I mean as long as it isn’t everyday.

Answer #4

thanks:)

Answer #5

If he gets really drunk, let him know how much it bothers you. But, you can always be ready, and when you think he’s over drinking, tell him it’s time to leave.

Answer #6

thanks:)

Answer #7

You’re welcome :)

Answer #8

Should you LET your boyfriend drink? This is something you have power over?

Answer #9

“Let your boyfriend?” You can certainly let him know your feelings but you aren’t going to change him.

If he likes to party hard and you don’t than that is a compatibility issue. If your BF has a drinking problem chances are he won’t stop until he hits rock bottom and you don’t want him pulling you down too.

If his drinking is that important to him you have to ask yourself where you stand with.

Answer #10

Do remember you cannot dictate what he does or how he wants to live his life. But, you can try to convince him that what he is doing is wrong if he is overdrinking. If you cannot convince him, you have to deal with it or leave. For the record, drinking is part and parcel of modern social lifestyle, so drinking is fine. But you should know your limits, and not get too high or drunk. Besides looking like a fool, there are health and social implications.

Answer #11

if i were you i would ask him to stop drinking if it bothered me and if he continues tell him he could die because its not good for his health

Answer #12

well if he drinks once hes gping to get addicted and evntuly keep dping it everyday. so no.

Answer #13

Let him? You make it seem like you control him, which isn’t the case. He’s his own man and is going to do what he want no matter what you say. I suggest you ask him to cut back if it bothers you and if he keeps doing it move on. At that point it should be obvious how much he respects you, if at all.

Answer #14

first off, u sound controlling when u use the word “let” in the same sentence as “my boyfriend”..u shouldn’t do that anymore. as for my advice to you, u should tell him how getting too drunk everytime yall drink bothers you, and if he doesn’t see eye-to-eye or try and make u feel better, then u have some decisions to make. but yea..unless ur bf’s a b*tch [i hope not lol], ur probably not gonna ever be able to control his intake of alcohol being that he’s his own person and can do whatever he wants to do. trust me, i have one of those “can’t change me” bf’s, but then again..but bf learned from his old drinking ways on his own. maybe that’s what ur gonna have to wait on…for HIM to make a change. :) GOOD LUCK AND HAPPY HOLIDAYS.

Answer #15

Umm Yes You SHould Let Him Drink And If He Keeps Doiin It And You Dont Like It Just Tell Him How It Is Tell Him You Dont Want Him Drinkin To Much You Just Want To Have A Nice Time And Not Have To Deal With A Person Drunk :P

Answer #16

It depends on how often really. Is it once a week? Then probably not, if once a month meh.

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