Parental Issues!! Help please?

Help her do the dishes/rake the leaves/clean the bathrooms/sweep the floors and then tell her you would like to hang out with friends at least twice a month. Hope you are also getting good grades/not having sex/respectful of parent(s)/not smoking. If you are doing none of the right stuff in this post then you need to start doing them. If you are having sex/smoking/stay out too late/not doing chores without being asked everytime/ fighting your lil bro/etc then you need to quit and make a U-Turn in life to get right with your parent(s)!!!

Just tell her to loosten up and let you live your life like a normal teenage girl.

I know its a scary thing to bring up this sorta stuff to your mom, but it couldnt hurt right? Tell her she needs to give you some space. You’re growing up and she cant keep you from growing up. Tell her you want a chance at a normal teenage life. Tell her you want to show her that you’re responsible and that you have learned well from how she raised you. If she doesnt give you any slack tell her that shes making it difficult for you to tell her whats going on in your life because she keeps shutting you down. And if she continues on like this its only going to cause you to be secretive and prone to make bad choices. Tell her you want to be able to come to her for these types of things. If she STILL wont give you any space then just rebel your a$$ off. Do what you want whether she knows about it or not. Dont acknowledge her disapproval. Make it obvious. Go out with your friends even if she says no. This will drive her insane and she’ll probably have a really serious talk with you and thats when you tell her that you tried to talk to her. You made an effort. You were being reasonable when she wasnt. Be calm about it though. Dont fight her on it. Tell her you want her to know about these things and you want her permission and approval but she makes it nearly impossible to do so. And if you stated your arguement correctly she’ll either be mad and the next day will give you slack or you guys will make up right there and then and you’ll be able to go out with your friends and talk to that boy. Hope I helped!