Life Plan!!!

It’s not bad to have a life plan - although that is not a good one and not a realistic one.

Your man is in 12th grade - that would make him 17 or 18 years old while you are still only 14 years old. Your relationship is illegal since you are having sex (don’t say your not, I’ve seen your other post).

Not only that - he is about to graduate. He is going to go to college most likely, meet new people, and have a whole new life. A life that you are not going to be able to be apart of because you are only 14 years old. You will grow apart and you will break up. Graduating high school and starting college is a huge change in someones life - and there is no way for you to keep up.

It’s not bad…just childish.

That’s not how real life works. Are either of you going to college? Where will you live? How will you afford…you know, anything? Do either of you have jobs?

There’s no reason to get married right out of high school because you won’t know each other that soon..at all.

From what you’re saying it’s kind of evident that you have a lot of work to do on your decision making skills.

Its not bad, but also know that not everything you want is nessecarily going to happen, or you may have to take different steps to get to where you want. but having a gameplan is better then not having a clue.

as far as you and you man, I doubt hes going to wait for you. Sorry hun, but.. Hes going off to college, and you’re going to be in high school for what… 3-4 more years atleast.

Maybe ;eave the guy out and then make a plan. haha

Mandyloo has all the right answers. Take what she’s written into consideration.